My ex texted me…
I immediately dropped everything I was doing.
It was like a heavenly embrace lifting me out of darkness.
You should know: those days I was scraping the bottom of the barrel.
I was eating little and the little I was eating was all for my father.
What did my father had to do with it?
Nothing, but I didn’t want him to worry about me. Or to understand my shameful situation.
Tough luck hiding anything though.
For the first time in my life I was distraught.
I was sleeping little and waking up with dreams of my ex.
All I could think was how to get her back.
It all started when she shared on Facebook a picture of her… Lying in bed with the new guy.
She was pointing at him with the caption saying “I like”.
That hit me in a way that back then I could have never realized.
The first manifestation in my life of the power of dark psychology and manipulation.
Today, I know she orchestrated it in purpose.
In the following days her mental torture intensified when she told me: “you and I, we were more just like friends after all”.
That the new guy was a “real” boyfriend / man.
Something like that were to happen to me today, I’d shake my head in mild disgust while muttering “eheh, how low”.
But back then me wasn’t today’s me.
Back then, her words were a dagger through my heart.
And my crotch.
And everything in between.
It’s been less than 10 years since then.
But it feels like a lifetime ago. A distant, greyed out memory of a me that doesn’t exist anymore.
Countless adventures, much learning, more than a hundred notches and a personal growth that transcended those notches as a measure of my worth, I am SO grateful for that heartbreak.
As a matter of fact, I am grateful for all of my searing losses, most bitter rejections and worst disappointments of my life.
Because they all taught me the best kept secret of success..
This is the most embarrassing story of my life.
Sure, landing on my ass sucked.
But what hurt more is how I had been conned and dominated.
It was September 2013.
I still remember getting a bit nervous when both our managing directors scheduled a meeting with me. It wasn’t common but I was doing a good job and had nothing to fear.
Or so I thought…
But when Matt and Hank walked in and slammed the door shut behind them I realized this wasn’t going to be a pat in the back meeting and a special bonus.
“We need to talk”, Matt bellowed.
“We have problems here”.
Hank instead said nothing and barely nodded.
He was a man of few words, but his imposing frame and menacing grudge did most of the talking for him.
I said I would not sign, but Matt grew angrier and angrier.
I guess I was visibly scared when he finally said “you are not leaving from here until you sign”.
Then Hank too the pen and place it in front of me.
I will never forget his stare.
I mustered all the courage I could to if I could get unemployment benefits. I was crumbling and they knew it.
“yes”, Matt said now in friendly voice. And then I added if they could help me find a job. “Of course”, he said.
With that, I felt like I could keep some scraps of honor.
But the truth is different. I had just been bullied and royally screwed over.
Today I think of that day like the battle scar of the virgin man waking up to life.
That day, I opened my eyes to the best-kep secret in this world.
You parents probably never told you.
Chances are they didn’t know any better either.
Your teaches never told you either.
And the self-development gurus never share.
As a matter of fact, most of them tell you the opposite of what really makes them successful.
Governments are built on that lie as well.
That they will take care of you if things go wrong, that you can count on them.
But if you are reading here, you probably know by now it’s not really how it goes.
The rich and powerful make the rules and pretend to play by them while telling everyone else they are good rules.
But they are only good for them.
The smarter people out there see through it and play around those rules.
That’s why you see people who aren’t any better -and are indeed worst than you!- do better than you are.
They are getting the job you want, the partner you dream about, the cars you love and the clothes you deserve.
And that’s why despite doing all the things you’ve been told you should do, you haven’t been able to get the life you want and dream of.
Some people say it’s not what you know, but who you know.
And that’s partially true.
But it’s also what people are willing to do FOR you.
And what people are willing to do TO you -if you don’t see it coming and if you let them-.
If you don’t understand the dynamics of power and of how it affects everything in life, you are going to lose out.
The people around you will get what should be yours and they will beat you.
Again and again.
That’s why a low quality, unprincipled woman could get to me years ago.
And that’s why Mark got the shaft.
The people like Mark always get the shaft.
Those who don’t understand the dynamics of power are doomed at a sub-par existence.
It might not be fair… But if you want to live a rich and fulfilling life the concept of fair is the first to hit the trash-can.
That’s what I learned along the way and that’s what revolutionized my life.
Because it’s the most important thing in your life.
It’s not “just” about social mastery: this seeps into your whole existence.
Social Power blows the whistle on all the harsh truths of life.
Social Power awakens you to the matrix.
I decided to create ThePowerMoves.com on what I refer to as “Robin Hood spirit”.
Because the more I started learning and developing, the more it became apparent to me that the world was skewed.
There were the few, very few, who would understand and work with power.
There were a few who’d buck the trend and fight power, but with mixed results.
And then there were the masses of average people, who’d who’d follow and listen to power.
There is a third wary though.
The third way is to understand power dynamics and leverage it.
And that’s life-changing.
When you learn to see how power works and to leverage it instead of submitting or fighting it, a world of opportunity opens up.
As it did for those who have gone through Social Power:
YOU CAN BECOME THE BEST VERSION OF YOU
LEARN. EVOLVE. DOMINATE
Social power is a comprehensive course geared toward self-discovery and development. It provides turn-key instructions that
cut across the mastery of social dominance, power, and social dynamics.
Social power is aimed at helping individuals develop world-beating relationship management skills, dating effectiveness and
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Working on bettering one’s self is quite a daunting task.
The social power course makes your self-development journey as hassle-free and fulfilling as
it can be.
1- BASICS OF POWER
This chapter is your bread and butter of everyday power dynamics.
With relatable videos and exercises, this chapter will help you better understand the dynamics of power. With just this module, you will acquire a superior understanding of social dynamics and power dynamics.
✔ Assertive and dominant behavior you need to use
✔ Submissive behavior you need to avoid
✔ Styles of dominance, pros & cons and what’s best for you
✔ Body language: how dominant men stand and move
✔ Practical steps, mindsets & exercises to make you confident & powerful (same results for my coaching clients at 90% discount)
2- SOCIAL POWER MOVES
From introductions to the simplest of gestures, you will discover the power dynamics of everyday socialization.
Chances are that you are losing social status, today, in every single interaction you have.
After this module, you will be gaining social status.
✔ Conveying power during introductions
✔ Hidden power moves & how to deal with them
✔ Learn to spot and win the key “domination showdowns” that determine the course of relationships
✔ Negotiation power moves: stop leaving money on the table
3- WORKPLACE POWER
Did you know that CEOs make 312 times more than what an average worker does in the same company?
Is the CEO really worth 312 times more?
Most likely not.
But output and skills are only half of the factors that constitute success.
And if you care about being successful, it’s time to learn the other half: politics and power games.
Want to take that leadership role?
It starts with this module!
✔ Step-by-Step plan for successful workplace politicking
✔ Dealing and beating office sociopaths
✔ Winning workplace power battles
4- DATING, SEDUCTION & DOMINANCE
Awkward moments during dates, silly flirty mistakes, seduction gone wrong……chances are you’ve had your fair share of all
the above mentioned.
Your morale is badly battered and you’re just a blink away from giving up.
Don’t throw your towel in the ring just yet, this module was specially created to put an end to your dating challenges.
This module contains in-depth lessons on power, dominance, and seduction, hacked into clear, concise bits to deliver unmatched value.
Limitations only exist in the mind.
In this dating and seduction module, you will find secrets to surmounting them.
✔ The full theory of how dating really in one simple lesson
✔ Games both gender play, and what they mean
✔ How to deal with seduction games
✔ How to handle shit tests & cockblockers
✔ Body How to use dominance to get the girls you want
5- RELATIONSHIP POWER DYNAMICS
Majority of failed relationships are results of toxic personalities.
This has made more expedient the need for the ability to swiftly decipher suitability of partner, relationship goals and
everything in-between at the very genesis of every relationship.
This module is targeted at empowering partners with tangible knowledge and offering guidance towards the path of relationship mastery.
Why settle for less in your relationship when you can have better. This module holds the answers to all your question.
✔ How women control men & what to do about it
✔ How men lower women’s self-esteem & what to do about it
✔ How women must spot and avoid abusers
✔ How power changes as relationships evolve
✔ How to end all games for the best relationship
✔ How you can be the best leader she’s ever had
6- SOCIAL MASTERY
Social mastery is the final recipe needed to concoct a perfect social being. This module holds unexploited resources that
will help you gain absolute mastery of your social environment.
In this module, you will learn how to deal with physical and social threats in ways that will establish you as an authority in
your relationships, community, and workplace.
✔ How to handle difficult social situations like a pro
✔ How to deal with physical threats and physical escalations
✔ Recognizing and beating the nasties social attacks
7.1 – BONUS LESSONS
Learning how to influence with real-life examples and you’re on the home stretch of becoming a true social master.
A case study of Johnny Deep to learn from one of the most attractive men in the world and, finally, learning how to be vulnerable.
The powerful way, not the cry baby way that’s so fashion these days.
✔ 2 quizzes to increase your emotional intelligence
✔ Nice guy VS bad boy case study
7.2 Bonus Ebooks
And finally, to make Social Power a real no-brainer and give you the most value you can get, I have withdrawn all the former products to roll everything into one.
These ebooks condense the knowledge of tens of books and researches in a compact, easy to consume size.
They will save you hundreds of dollars and years of learning!
Together with the course, they make the most complete package to become a high-quality person.
✔ Wealth Guide ($18 value)
Is the metasummary of all personal finance books and “get rich literature”.
Hundreds of dollars of books and products went in here. But even more important, you save time: you can get all this knowledge in one hour or less.
✔ Pussy Power – dating guide ($16 value)
Is an overview of the dating literature for women.
Tens of books condensed into one.. Plus you get all the bad advice highlighted and correct by me. There is many of those in the female dating literature, so you can stop making the silliest mistakes and find the man you deserve.
✔ Relationship Guide ($19 value)
Again, the best books and researches are condensed here.
If you are looking to improve your relationship, this is the ebook that packs the most wisdom in the shortest time while still giving you the most complete overview.
The relationship literature is also very good and based on much research, so you learn what works for sure.
✔ Texting Guide ($9 value)
Texting guide for men, where you can simply copy and paste the most effective texts to maximize the odds of getting dates.
Based on psychology and thousands of texts, this is what works to go from meeting to date in the most reliable way possible.
✔ One Year Access to Subscribers’ Only Forum ($178 value)
Full access to the advanced, subscribers only area in the forum.
Any question you have about the course or how it applies to your life, I answer personally (and it’s not public so you won’t have to worry about your privacy).
Total of $240 in value and you get it all included in Social Power.
Inside Social Power
Mastering the dynamics of power will make you more successful in all areas of life.
It doesn’t matter if…
- You’re short or bald or too thin.. (because I am all of them!)
- You are naturally submissive and afraid
- If you’re from a race or ethnicity that puts you at a disadvantage
- Or getting older (as if we all weren’t anyway.. )
You are going to make a huge leap by leveraging the dynamics of power.
What Students Say
Social Power is like learning to read: a mumble-jumbo of seemingly incoherent social signals suddenly makes sense.
It’s tremendously empowering.
I realized how I sometimes act “too nice” and lose status. And how I unconsciously engage in status climbing, including in my own relationship.
And I am already fixing my behavior to make my life better.
The only tiny regret is timing: I wish younger me had this resource. It would have boosted my career in the forces.
–Frank S., UK
I am a low-rank Technician in Military and was appearing in front of some top military officers for an inquiry. I used your techniques and remained dominant over them and the results were in my favor. They all were harassing me but they failed in front of my attitude.
–Muh A., Uknown location feedback
Why Social Power
There are thousands of books and courses on social skills.
Why should you take Social Power?
Well, you don’t have to.
And the fewer people take it, the better it will be for those very few who take care to learn real social dynamics.
Rule of Power #1: to win big, play the game at the easy level. And the best way to play the game at the easy level, is to have weak opponents. The good news for you is that you do have weak opponents!
You just need to get moderately good and you’re already a rockstar. And if you want to smash it? Well, then Social Power is all about getting really good.
#1: Social Power is based on science
Have you already taken a look around this website?
There are thousands of books, citations and courses reviewed. They all went inside this course.
If you were to add up the value of each one of them, you end up with thousands of dollars (and thousands of days to go through them).
#2: Social Power is based on real-life scenarios
Are you tired of advice such as “be more confident”, “don’t chase her” or “be a mystery“.
What do they even mean?
How to be more confident, how to get girls without chasing and how can women by more of a mystery.
I know I was tired of this generic, catch-all advice from pundits whom I felt knew no better than I knew even when I was starting out.
That’s why I started this website in the first place!
Social Power is the only course with hundreds of videos, text examples and pictures to show you exactly how powerful and weak behavior looks like.
If you enjoy practical learning, this course is a no-brainer because it is all about practical learning.
Social Power is based on real-life scenarios because I have lived, observed and analyzed many of the scenarios I describe. And I I show them to you as realistically as possible.
#3: Social Power is the best source on power moves & manipulation
Most social skills courses are based on best-case scenarios.
The best case scenarios of meeting good-hearted people, having nice and good conversation and entering into collaborative and friendly relationships.
When that’s the case, great!
But unluckily, that is not the full picture of the reality we live in.
We live in a world were manipulation, dominance, aggression, and coercion often pay.
And we live in a world where you can expect people to try to dominate you.
That is why one of the tenets of this website is that to be good, you need first to learn to be bad.
There can be no good without the ability to stand up to evil.
Social Power shows you how to become the kind of person who can be really good, because he knows how to be bad.
Most courses out there are either people talking in front of a camera or walls of texts.
Social Power mixes all learning.
Social Power takes real-life texts I get from women and explains what are the dynamics at play and how you should answer. It takes the best assessment quizzes from the best books and transforms them into actual quizzes.
And to help you grow your emotional intelligence it shows you video and then forces you to think what are the power dynamics at play. Which you can then double check with the correct answers.
The same psychology Social Power teaches you is the same psychology it uses to help you learn as smoothly as possible.
This is deep learning.
Social Power FAQ
Here are some common questions I get on Social Power:
1. Can you tell me more about this course?
Yes, and if that was the question you were about to ask me the first thing I want to tell you is that you will gain hugely with this course.
Making questions to busy people about things you should check yourself won’t take you far in life.
When you make basic and generic questions to your boss, for example, he will immediately think that you’re someone who needs to be babied.
And that’s not promotion material.
That’s the type of tough love I give you in Social Power.
And in the module on workplace power, I explain how to finesse your boss as well.
To get more info on top of this page also check the tab “curriculum”.
Go at the top of the page, where you will see 3 tabs: “overview”, “curriculum” and “instructor”.
Click on the tab “curriculum” and you will see the names of each lesson.
2. What exactly is Social Power
Social Power is an in-depth, thorough course on social skills.
It has a special focus on dynamics of power (hence the name ‘social power”), the behaviors that make people come across as high or low quality, the games people play and the darker, manipulative side of human nature.
3. I’m not looking for power, can this course still be helpful for me?
Look, people who ask this question often misunderstand this course as some sort of “how to become an asshole course”.
Let me be clear: this is NOT a course on how to be an asshole.
This is the opposite.
This is a course to help you BECOME A HIGH-VALUE MAN (or woman).
You will also learn how to behave more dominant, and that’s to deal with the assholes, not to become an asshole.
Assholes are not high-quality individuals, and this course is to make you a high-quality person.
Also, frankly, it doesn’t matter whether you are interested in “power” or not.
Power and powerful people will still play a role in your life, where you’re interested in it or not.
4. I just want a peaceful existence, why should I learn power dynamics?
“let him who wants peace prepare for war”.
Like you, I wish we lived in a world where we didn’t need that quote.
But we don’t.
And it’s our responsibility, and your responsibility as a peaceful individual, to help us make this world the best world we can have.
And that means learning the dynamics of power.
And let me cap this one with another quote.
There can be no good, without the capacity of facing evil.
6. How is Social Power different from your other content?
Social Power is better structured, more focused, more concentrated and deeper than most articles or videos.
While my articles discuss a lot of different things including social power, Social Power focuses on the dynamics of power in human relationships.
And in my articles on social power, I make sure to give good value but I don’t share everything and I don’t provide all the examples.
That way, as a Social Power trainee, you get an edge.
7. This is great knowledge, but will it bring results?
Inside Social Power, there are information and real-life breakdowns that you don’t get anywhere else.
And I’ll tell you this… All those breakdowns, even if you won’t do a thing to change your behavior, they will still increase your emotional intelligence.
Once your baseline of emotionally intelligence increases, your behavior improves automatically.
Even if you do nothing you will improve.
And that's not all: there are specific exercises and specific quizzes with detailed action steps.
This is information that my consulting clients have been very happy to pay more than €290/h for (more than $300/h.. And I was just getting started).
8. What’s the difference with the competitors?
Let me ask you a question: do you see this type of content anywhere else?
Do you see as much depth, cutting edge psychology, actionable information that is backed by hundreds of books and researches and real-life examples?
Do you see power dynamics explained as well and as in detail anywhere else?
People routinely ask me where they can find more information like in this website.
And when I tell them "Robert Greene", "Machiavelli", this or that website, they all come back saying "but it's not nearly as good and actionable".
Indeed, the reason why I started the website and the reason why I spent months on this course is because there is nothing similar.
I don’t know if you feel the same, but for me, the typical social skills advice wasn’t cutting it.
The typical social skills advice is either about "bringing the energy" and "commanding attention" or about "listening well" and "being interested". And both of those have their place and time. I also teach that.
But it’s not enough.
Sometimes you’ll meet a motherfucker, and then you’ll need to know how to be an even bigger motherfucker to handle a motherfucker.
If you are looking for that type of real-world knowledge, then this is your course.
Be nice and courteous, but always have a plan B to kill every last motherfucker in the room.
Empowered or Refunded
After years of studying and experimenting with reading and researching, I’m so confident that this course will provide powerful results that I offer an unbeatable guarantee.
Take the entire course, try it out for 30 days, and if you’re not satisfied, I don’t want your payment.
I know that this is the most advanced, sophisticated and most helpful social skills course out there. My students and readers often end up here after they have tried everything else.
Are you ready to change your life?
Has the idea of taking control and becoming the best person you can be been running wild through your head?
I thought so…
You have the chance to take action RIGHT NOW and at the highest value.
But not for long, I’m working on the marketing and the course will soon go to its real value.
So hurry up and make that change!
Truly become the YOU that you have always dreamt about being and put your life in the direction you choose.
You have the power to do that right now right at your very fingertips.
Why spend the time thinking about it and wanting that better life that someone you know already has?
Make it your life! Do it now!
We only have so little time, so spend it making your dreams come true! Prove to everyone you have what it takes and make this life yours again!
Better hurry as this deal will not last long! Stop dreaming and start being!
Make your dreams a REALITY!
This course shatters everything you thought you knew and builds an Unbreakable wall of perfection and teaches you EVERYTHING you need to become what everyone craves to be!
Imagine yourself in the future after you’ve taken this course and what you would say to yourself right now, the sense of urgency kicks in, that’s why you need to join the social power now!
Join and find out for yourself and change your life to the way you want it!
Module 3 - Workplace Power, Politics & Power Moves
- 1. Basics of Workplace Power
- 2. Power Plan: Concrete Steps to Launch Your Career
- 3. The 17 Political Pitfalls to Avoid
- 4. The 11 Types of Political Players (& How to Deal With Them)
- 5. Dealing With Bad Bosses (& Beating Them For Good)
- Self Awareness Analysis Quiz: Do You Have a Problem With Power?
- 6. Power Leechers: Recognizing & Beating The Most Insidious Political Animals
- 7. Spotting & Beating Workplace Power Moves
- 8. Beating Workplace Enemies
Module 4 - Dating & Seduction
- 1. Dating & Attraction: The Full Picture (Made Simple)
- Mating Intelligence Quiz: What Game Is She Playing?
- 2. Power & Games In Seduction: The Full Overview (Made Simple)
- Mating Intelligence Quiz: What Dating Strategy is She Using?
- 3. Dating Is a Dance of Dominance & This Post Shows How to Dance
- 4. Games Men Play & Why: Understanding Men
- 5. Cockblockers: The Complete Guide to Beat Them
- Quiz: How Would You Handle This Cockblocker?
- 6. Sex, Dating, Relationships & Power
- Quiz: Intra-Gender Warfare – When Women Fight Women
- Mating Intelligence: What Dating Strategy Is He Using?
Module 5 - Relationship Power Dynamics
- 1. Disclaimer: Avoid Engaging in Relationships’ Power Moves
- 2. Power in Relationships: The Full Theory (Made Simple)
- Social Awareness Quiz: Who’s Got Power in This Relationship?
- 3. The Three Secrets to Relationship Control
- 4. Relationship Power: How Women Control Men (& What to Do About It)
- Mind Control Quiz: How Some Women Control The Most Dominant Men
- 5. Relationship Power: How Men Control Women (& What to Do About It)
- 6. Games Women Plays & Power Moves (& How to Deal With Them)
- 7. Relationship Trump Cards: Games of Chicken & Threats
- 8. Relationship Cure: How to End All Games
- Emotional Intelligence Quiz: Turning Arguments Into Love Fests
Module 7 - Bonuses
- World’s Lies: The Systemic Games People Play
- Genders & Cultures: Different Approaches to Power
- Case Study: Johnny Depp
- Social Finessing: 23 Power Pills to Increase Your Influence
- Power & Vulnerability: When to Be Vulnerable & When to Avoid
- Increasing Your Emotional intelligence Test #1
- Increasing Your Emotional intelligence Test #2
- RSD Tyler: Domain Authority Failure
- Dating Competition: When a Nice Guy Meets an Asshole
- Bonus E-books