My ex texted me…
I immediately dropped everything I was doing.
It was like a heavenly embrace lifting me out of darkness.
You should know: those days I was scraping the bottom of the barrel.
I was sleeping little and waking up with dreams of my ex.
All I could think was how to get her back.
It all started when she shared on Facebook a picture of her… Lying in bed with the new guy.
She was pointing at him with the caption saying “I like”.
That hit me in a way that back then I could have never realized.
The first manifestation in my life of the power of dark psychology and manipulation (I later found out she orchestrated it all).
In the following days her mental torture intensified.
“you and I, we were more just like friends after all”, she told me.
That the new guy was a “real” boyfriend / man.
Something like that were to happen to me today, I’d shake my head in mild disgust while muttering “eheh, how low”.
But back then me wasn’t today’s me.
Back then, her words were a dagger through my heart.
And my crotch.
And everything in between.
Not that much time has passed, after all. A bit less than 10 years.
But it feels like a lifetime ago.
A distant, greyed out memory of a me that doesn’t exist anymore.
Monstruous learning, many adventures, more than a hundred notches and a personal growth that transcended those notches as a measure of my worth, I am SO grateful for that heartbreak.
As a matter of fact, I am grateful for all of my searing losses, most bitter rejections and worst disappointments of my life.
Because they all taught me how to live a fulfilling life.
This is the most embarrassing story of my life.
Sure, landing on my ass sucked.
But what hurt more is how I had been conned and dominated.
It was September 2013.
I still remember getting a bit nervous when both our managing directors scheduled a meeting with me. It wasn’t common but I was doing a good job and had nothing to fear.
Or so I thought (and told myself).
But when Matt and Hank walked in and slammed the door shut behind them I realized this wasn’t going to be a pat in the back meeting and a special bonus.
“We need to talk”, Matt bellowed.
“We have problems here”.
Hank instead said nothing and barely nodded.
He was a man of few words, but his imposing frame and menacing grudge did most of the talking for him.
I said I would not sign their papers right there and then, but Matt grew angrier and angrier.
I guess I was visibly scared when he finally said “you are not leaving from here until you sign”.
Then Hank took the pen and place it in front of me.
I will never forget his stare.
When I asked if I could get unemployment benefits I was crumbling, and they knew it.
“yes”, Matt said now in friendly voice.
“And of course they’d help me find a job”, he said.
With that, I felt like I could keep some scraps of honor.
I could tell myself I didn’t capitulate but asked for my rights.
But of course I was lying to myself.
I had just been bullied and royally screwed over.
I still hate them. But I’m also grateful.
That day, I opened my eyes.
You parents probably never told you.
Chances are they didn’t know any better either.
Your teachers never told you either.
And the self-development gurus never share it.
As a matter of fact, most of them tell you the opposite of what really makes them successful.
Governments are built on that lie as well.
That they will take care of you if things go wrong, that you can count on them.
But if you are reading here, you probably know by now it’s not really how it goes.
The rich and powerful make the rules and pretend to play by them.
The official pitch is that the rules are good for everyone.
But they are not good for everyone.
The smarter people out there see through it and play around those rules.
That’s why you see people who aren’t any better -and are indeed worse than you!- do better than you are.
They are getting the job you want, the partner you dream about, the cars you love and the clothes you deserve.
And that’s why despite doing all the things you’ve been told you should do, you haven’t been able to get the life you want (yet).
If you don’t understand the dynamics of power and of how it affects everything in life, you are going to lose out.
The people around you will get what should be yours and they will beat you.
Again and again.
That’s why a low quality, unprincipled woman could get to me years ago.
And that’s why Mark got the shaft.
You see, the people like Mark always get the shaft.
Because people like Mark -the majority- don’t understand the power dynamics that govern the world.
And those who don’t understand the dynamics of power are doomed at a sub-par existence.
It might not be fair… But if you want to live a rich and fulfilling life the concept of fair is the first to hit the trash-can.
That’s what I learned along the way and that’s what revolutionized my life.
Social Power blows the whistle on all the harsh truths of life.
Social Power awakens you to the matrix.
I decided to create ThePowerMoves.com on what I refer to as “Robin Hood spirit”.
Because the more I started learning and developing, the more it became apparent to me that the world was skewed.
And I could see 3 large groups of people:
- Those who wield power to screw other people over. And many of them get riches and success.
- A few who’d buck the trend and fight power, but with mixed results. Either visionary entrepreneur or rejects.
- The masses of average people, who’d follow and listen to power for the scraps. These are the masses of average Joes.
There is a third wary though.
The third way is to understand power dynamics and leverage it.
Not to fight it, not to follow it, not to use it to screw other people over. But to gain freedom.
Once you understand the rules of the game, you can play as you please. You can climb the corporate ladder, get the big house and all of that.
Or you can do your own thing.
And that power of choice is life-changing.
When you learn to see how power works and to leverage it instead of submitting or fighting it, a world of opportunity opens up.
As it did for those who have gone through Social Power:
1- BASICS OF POWER
This module unlocks from the first moment you join the course.
And it’s your bread and butter of everyday power dynamics.
With just this module alone, you will know more about power, social dynamics, confidence, and dominance than almost anyone else.
✔ Assertive and dominant behavior you need to use
✔ Submissive behavior you need to avoid
✔ Styles of dominance, pros & cons and what’s best for you
✔ Body language: how dominant men stand and move
✔ Practical steps, mindsets & exercises to make you confident & powerful (same results for my coaching clients at 90% discount)
2- SOCIAL POWER MOVES
This module unlocks after 5 days without any additional charge.
From introductions to the simplest of gestures, you will discover the power dynamics of everyday socialization.
Chances are that you are losing social status, today, in every single interaction you have.
After this module, you will be gaining social status.
✔ Conveying power during introductions
✔ Hidden power moves & how to deal with them
✔ Learn to spot and win the key “domination showdowns” that determine the course of relationships
✔ Negotiation power moves: stop leaving money on the table
3- WORKPLACE POWER
This module unlocks 10 days after joining the course at no additional charge.
Guys, don’t believe who says otherwise: money is power.
And to acquire resources you need to know how to play the corporate game.
Did you know that CEOs make 312 times more than what an average worker does in the same company?
Is the CEO really worth 312 times more?
Most likely not.
But output and skills are only half of the factors that constitute success.
And if you care about being successful, it’s time to learn the other half: politics and power dynamics.
Want to take that leadership role?
It starts with this module!
✔ Step-by-Step plan for successful workplace politicking
✔ Dealing and beating office sociopaths
✔ Winning workplace power battles
4- DATING, SEDUCTION & DOMINANCE
This module unlocks 15 days after joining at no additional cost.
Awkward moments during dates, silly flirty mistakes, seduction gone wrong……chances are you’ve had your fair share of all them.
Your morale is badly battered and you’re just a blink away from giving up.
Don’t throw your towel in the ring just yet, this module was specially created to put an end to your dating challenges.
This module contains in-depth lessons on power, dominance, and seduction, hacked into clear, concise bits to teach what really works.
✔ The full theory of how dating really works in one simple lesson
✔ Games both gender play, and what they mean
✔ How to deal with seduction games
✔ How to handle shit tests & cockblockers
✔ How to use dominance to get the girls you want
5- RELATIONSHIP POWER DYNAMICS
This module unlocks 20 days after you joined at no additional costs.
The majority of poor relationships are the result of toxic -but common- behaviors.
This module shows you what these behaviors are, and how to stop them, both in yourself and in your partner.
Relationship Power Dynamics will also teach men how to become true leaders of their relationship -toxicity-free-, and will teach women how to spot abusive men.
✔ How women control men & what to do about it
✔ How men lower women’s self-esteem & what to do about it
✔ How women must spot and avoid abusers
✔ How power changes as relationships evolve
✔ How to end all games for the best relationship
✔ How you can be the best leader she’s ever had
6- SOCIAL MASTERY
This module unlocks 25 days after you joined at no additional cost.
Some people say it’s not what you know, but who you know.
And that’s partially true.
But it’s also what people are willing to do FOR you.
This module teaches you how to influence and persuade.
✔ How to handle difficult social situations like a pro
✔ How to deal with physical threats and physical escalations
✔ Recognizing and beating the nasties social attacks
7.1 – BONUS LESSONS
This module unlocks one month after you joined at no additional cost.
You’re on the home stretch of becoming a true social master.
And here you will learn more about influence & persuasion with real-life examples.
A case study of Johnny Deep to learn from one of the most attractive men in the world, more quizzes to increase your EI and, finally, how to be vulnerable.
The powerful way, not the cry baby way that’s so fashioned these days.
✔ 2 quizzes to increase your emotional intelligence
✔ Nice guy VS bad boy case study
7.2 Bonus Ebooks
And finally, to make Social Power a real no-brainer and give you the most value you can get, I have withdrawn all the former products to roll everything into one.
These ebooks condense the knowledge of tens of books and researches in a compact, easy to consume size.
They will save you hundreds of dollars and years of learning!
Together with the course, they make the most complete package to become a high-quality person.
✔ Wealth Guide ($16 value)
Is the metasummary of all personal finance books and “get rich literature”.
Hundreds of dollars of books and products went in here. But even more important, you save time: you can get all this knowledge in one hour or less.
✔ Pussy Power – dating guide ($13 value)
Is an overview of the dating literature for women.
Tens of books condensed into one.. Plus you get all the bad advice highlighted and correct by me. There is many of those in the female dating literature, so you can stop making the silliest mistakes and find the man you deserve.
✔ Relationship Guide ($14 value)
Again, the best books and researches are condensed here.
If you are looking to improve your relationship, this is the ebook that packs the most wisdom in the shortest time while still giving you the most complete overview.
The relationship literature is also very good and based on much research, so you learn what works for sure.
✔ Texting Guide ($9 value)
Texting guide for men, where you can simply copy and paste the most effective texts to maximize the odds of getting dates.
Based on psychology and thousands of texts, this is what works to go from meeting to date in the most reliable way possible.
✔ Ultimate Power ($38 value)
Ultimate Power is your ultimate self-development cheat sheet. Pure concentrated wisdom summarizing hundreds of the best self-development books.
This is the ultimate and last self-development product you’ll ever need.
It was retailing at 34 Eur (around $38) and customers loved it.
Social Power shows you the practical side.
Ultimate Power tackles the mindsets.
Together, you have all the tools guaranteed to help you go straight into the top 1%.
✔ One Year Access to Subscribers’ Only Forum ($178 value)
Full access to the advanced, subscribers only area in the forum.
Any question you have about the course or how it applies to your life, I answer personally (and it’s not public so you won’t have to worry about your privacy).
Total of $268 in value and you get it all included in Social Power.
Inside Social Power
Mastering the dynamics of power will make you more successful in all areas of life.
It doesn’t matter if…
- You’re short or bald or too thin.. (because I am all of them!)
- You are naturally submissive and afraid
- If you’re from a race or ethnicity that puts you at a disadvantage
- Or getting older (as if we all weren’t anyway.. )
You are going to make a huge leap by leveraging the dynamics of power.
What Students Say
Social Power is like learning to read: a mumble-jumbo of seemingly incoherent social signals suddenly makes sense.
It’s tremendously empowering.
I realized how I sometimes act “too nice” and lose status. And how I unconsciously engage in status climbing, including in my own relationship.
And I am already fixing my behavior to make my life better.
The only tiny regret is timing: I wish younger me had this resource. It would have boosted my career in the forces.
–Frank S., UK
I am a low-rank Technician in Military and was appearing in front of some top military officers for an inquiry. I used your techniques and remained dominant over them and the results were in my favor. They all were harassing me but they failed in front of my attitude.
–Muh A., Uknown location feedback
Why Social Power
There are thousands of books and courses on social skills.
Why should you take Social Power?
Well, you don’t have to.
And the fewer people take it, the better it will be for those very few who take care to learn real social dynamics.
Rule of Power #1: to win big, play the game at the easy level. And the best way to play the game at the easy level, is to have weak opponents. The good news for you is that you do have weak opponents!
You just need to get moderately good and you’re already a rockstar. And if you want to smash it? Well, then Social Power is all about getting really good.
#1: Social Power is based on science
Have you already taken a look around this website?
There are thousands of books, citations and courses reviewed. They all went inside this course.
If you were to add up the value of each one of them, you end up with thousands of dollars (and thousands of days to go through them).
#2: Social Power is based on real-life scenarios
Are you tired of advice such as “be more confident”, “don’t chase her” or “be a mystery“.
What do they even mean?
How to be more confident, how to get girls without chasing and how can women by more of a mystery.
I know I was tired of this generic, catch-all advice from pundits whom I felt knew no better than I knew even when I was starting out.
That’s why I started this website in the first place!
Social Power is the only course with hundreds of videos, text examples and pictures to show you exactly how powerful and weak behavior looks like.
If you enjoy practical learning, this course is a no-brainer because it is all about practical learning.
Social Power is based on real-life scenarios because I have lived, observed and analyzed many of the scenarios I describe. And I I show them to you as realistically as possible.
#3: Social Power is the best source on power moves & manipulation
Most social skills courses are based on best-case scenarios.
The best case scenarios of meeting good-hearted people, having nice and good conversation and entering into collaborative and friendly relationships.
When that’s the case, great!
But unluckily, that is not the full picture of the reality we live in.
We live in a world were manipulation, dominance, aggression, and coercion often pay.
And we live in a world where you can expect people to try to dominate you.
That is why one of the tenets of this website is that to be good, you need first to learn to be bad.
There can be no good without the ability to stand up to evil.
Social Power shows you how to become the kind of person who can be really good, because he knows how to be bad.
Most courses out there are either people talking in front of a camera or walls of texts.
Social Power mixes all learning.
This course shows you real-life texts I get from women and explains what are the dynamics at play and how you should answer. It takes the best assessment quizzes from the best books and transforms them into actual quizzes.
And to help you grow your emotional intelligence it shows you video and then forces you to think what are the power dynamics at play. Which you can then double-check with the correct answers.
The same psychology Social Power teaches you is the same psychology it uses to help you learn as smoothly as possible.
This is deep learning.
Social Power FAQ
Here are some common questions I get on Social Power:
1. What exactly is Social Power
Social Power is an in-depth, thorough course on social skills.
It has a special focus on dynamics of power (hence the name ‘social power”), the actions and words that make people come across as high or low quality, the games people play and the darker, manipulative side of human nature.
There are 7 modules, each releasing automatically after 5 days from the day you join.
The slow release helps you stay on track at a healthy pace.
Check the tab “curriculum” at the top of this page to read the names of each lesson.
2. I’m not looking for power, can this course be helpful for me?
Look, people who ask this question often misunderstand this course as some sort of “how to become an asshole course”.
Let me be clear: this is NOT a course on how to be an asshole.
This is the opposite.
Assholes rarely are high-quality individuals, and this is a course to help you BECOME A HIGH-VALUE MAN (or woman).
Also, frankly, it doesn’t matter whether you are interested in “power” or not.
Some of those who are interested in power will still try to trample your rights. And I would recommend you be ready for that.
“let him who wants peace prepare for war”.
It’s our responsibility, and your responsibility as a good person, to help us make this world the best world we can have.
3. How is Social Power different from your other content?
Social Power is better structured, more focused, more concentrated and deeper than most articles or videos.
While my articles discuss a lot of different things including social power, Social Power focuses on the dynamics of power in human relationships.
And in my articles on social power, I make sure to give good value but I don’t share everything and I don’t provide all the examples.
That way, as a Social Power trainee, you get an edge.
4. What’s the difference with the competitors?
Let me ask you a question: do you see this type of content anywhere else?
Do you see as much depth, cutting edge psychology, actionable information that is backed by hundreds of books and researches and real-life examples?
Do you see power dynamics explained as well and as in detail anywhere else?
People routinely ask me where they can find more information like in this website.
And when I tell them "Robert Greene", "Machiavelli", this or that website, they all come back saying "but it's not nearly as good and actionable".
Indeed, the reason why I started the website and the reason why I spent months on this course is because there is nothing similar.
I don’t know if you feel the same, but for me, the typical social skills advice wasn’t cutting it.
The typical social skills advice is either about "bringing the energy" and "commanding attention" or about "listening well" and "being interested". And both of those have their place and time. I also teach that.
But it’s not enough.
Sometimes you’ll meet a motherfucker, and then you’ll need to know how to be an even bigger motherfucker to handle a motherfucker.
If you are looking for that type of real-world knowledge, then this is your course.
Be nice and courteous, but always have a plan B to kill every last motherfucker in the room.
5. What if it’s not for me?
If you worry about the money, then you don't have to worry at all.
Simply give us feedback as to why you didn't like it and you will receive a refund pronto.
You can read here the full refund policy.
But in short: 30 days money back guarantee.
Email: connect (at) thepowermoves (dot) com
Empowered or Refunded
After years of studying and experimenting with reading and researching, I’m so confident that this course will provide powerful results that I offer an unbeatable guarantee.
Take the entire course, try it out for 30 days, and if you’re not satisfied, I don’t want your payment.
I know that this is the most advanced, sophisticated and most helpful social skills course out there. My students and readers often end up here after they have tried everything else.
Are you ready to change your life?
Has the idea of taking control and becoming the best person you can be been running wild through your head?
I thought so…
You have the chance to take action RIGHT NOW and at the highest value.
But not for long, the course will soon reach its full value at 3 or 4 times the current price..
So hurry up and make that change!
Truly become the YOU that you have always dreamt about being and put your life in the direction you choose.
You have the power to do that right now right at your very fingertips.
Why spend the time thinking about it and wanting that better life that someone you know already has?
Make it your life! Do it now!
We only have so little time, so spend it making your dreams come true! Prove to everyone you have what it takes and make this life yours again!
Better hurry as this deal will not last long! Stop dreaming and start being!
Make your dreams a REALITY!
This course shatters everything you thought you knew and builds an Unbreakable wall of perfection and teaches you EVERYTHING you need to become what everyone craves to be!
Imagine yourself in the future after you’ve taken this course and what you would say to yourself right now, the sense of urgency kicks in, that’s why you need to join the social power now!
Join and find out for yourself and change your life to the way you want it!
Module 3 - Workplace Power, Politics & Career
- 1. Basics of Workplace Power
- 2. Power Plan: Concrete Steps to Launch Your Career
- 3. The 17 Political Pitfalls to Avoid
- 4. The 11 Types of Political Players (& How to Deal With Them)
- 5. Dealing With Bad Bosses (& Beating Them For Good)
- Self Awareness Analysis Quiz: Do You Have a Problem With Power?
- 6. Sociopaths: Recognizing & Beating The Worst Political Animals
- 7. Workplace Power Moves: What They Are, How to Handle Them
- 8. Workplace Warfare: What to Do When Someone Targets You
- 9. A Guide for Female Leaders: Wielding Power & Remaining Feminine
- 10. Managers’ Guide: Where Leadership Meets Politics
- 11. Toxic Employees: Descriptions & Fixes (Guide for Managers)
Module 4 - Dating & Seduction
- 1. Dating & Attraction: The Full Picture (Made Simple)
- Mating Intelligence Quiz: What Game Is She Playing?
- 2. Power & Games In Seduction: A Walk-Through From 1st Meeting to Relationship
- Mating Intelligence Quiz: What Dating Strategy is She Using?
- 3. Dating Is a Dance of Dominance & This Post Shows How to Dance
- 4. Games Men Play & Why: Understanding Men
- 5. Cockblockers: The Complete Guide to Beat Them
- Quiz: How Would You Handle This Cockblocker?
- 6. Sex, Dating, Relationships & Power
- Quiz: Intra-Gender Warfare – When Women Fight Women
- Mating Intelligence: What Dating Strategy Is He Using?
Module 5 - Relationship Power Dynamics
- 1. Disclaimer: Avoid Engaging in Relationships’ Power Moves
- 2. Power in Relationships: The Full Theory (Made Simple)
- Social Awareness Quiz: Who’s Got Power in This Relationship?
- 3. The Three Secrets to Relationship Control
- 4. Relationship Power: How Women Control Men (& What to Do About It)
- Mind Control Quiz: How Some Women Control The Most Dominant Men
- 5. Relationship Power: How Men Control Women (& What to Do About It)
- 6. Games Women Play & Power Moves (& How to Deal With Them)
- 7. Relationship Trump Cards: Games of Chicken & Threats
- 8. Relationship Cure: How to End All Games
- Emotional Intelligence Quiz: Turning Arguments Into Love Fests
Module 7 - Bonuses
- World’s Lies: The Systemic Games People Play
- Genders & Cultures: Different Approaches to Power
- Case Study: Johnny Depp
- Social Finessing: 24 Power Pills to Increase Your Influence
- Power & Vulnerability: When to Be Vulnerable & When to Avoid
- Increasing Your Emotional intelligence Test #1
- Increasing Your Emotional intelligence Test #2
- RSD Tyler: Domain Authority Failure
- Dating Competition: When a Nice Guy Meets an Asshole
- Bonus E-books