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Don't stew: better drawing your boundaries later, than neverBy Lucio Buffalmano · 12 Replies · 2,299 ViewsLast post: 2 years ago · Matthew Whitewood
Taking the judge role with one wordBy John Freeman · 20 Replies · 2,070 ViewsLast post: 2 years ago · Lucio Buffalmano
To ease tension, draw attention to it and release it with humor ("forced vulnerability")By Lucio Buffalmano3 Replies · 718 ViewsLast post: 2 years ago · selffriend
Brag Declaration: Declaring A Brag Allows You To Brag MoreBy Matthew Whitewood4 Replies · 626 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · selffriend
Frame control: The "Plain Disagreement" ("I just don't feel that way")By Lucio Buffalmano1 Reply · 590 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · selffriend
"It's Just You" Technique to Disagree or Distance from Someone's OpinionBy Matthew Whitewood6 Replies · 1,003 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · Lucio Buffalmano
Frame control for "trap questions": don't answer the question, but verbalize their gameBy Lucio Buffalmano2 Replies · 1,530 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · Lucio Buffalmano
"This guy" power move: video exampleBy Lucio Buffalmano2 Replies · 524 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · Lucio Buffalmano
Negotiation technique: "on your honor" gambitBy Lucio Buffalmano4 Replies · 856 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · Lucio Buffalmano
To avoid breaking rapport: replace "no" with "I wish I could" in your answersBy Lucio Buffalmano3 Replies · 977 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · Ali Scarlett
How to thrive in prison: High-submissivness high-power (Michael Franzese)By Lucio Buffalmano · 11 Replies · 1,610 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · Stef
"But I'm not an expert!" covert power moveBy John Freeman9 Replies · 571 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · John Freeman
Question: do I have enough power to pull this off?By John Freeman0 Replies · 376 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · John Freeman
Asking for career adviceBy John Freeman3 Replies · 645 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · Lucio Buffalmano
Attack & offend, then say "but that's OK" (Covert-aggression, Trump style)By Lucio Buffalmano · 14 Replies · 1,869 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · Lucio Buffalmano
"Thank you for correcting me"By John Freeman3 Replies · 1,336 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · Lucio Buffalmano
Paradoxical Therapy to handle emotional manipulation: real-life exampleBy Lucio Buffalmano8 Replies · 2,161 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · Matthew Whitewood
Answering to micro-aggressions: the aggression-scale calibrationBy Lucio Buffalmano · 14 Replies · 2,463 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · Transitioned
The Self-Amusing Dominance StyleBy Lucio Buffalmano · 10 Replies · 2,890 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · Lucio Buffalmano
The "show me the hand strategy": use it to handle covert aggression (example)By Lucio Buffalmano0 Replies · 3,943 ViewsLast post: 3 years ago · Lucio Buffalmano