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26 Y/O 350k Loc Independent, How to use Provider Style?

#1 · March 25, 2021, 5:34 am

Undergrad and Masters are both MIT, yes that MIT

Have had a few girls both long and casual but realized that I would be a fool not to push myself into this strategy at least to try it.

350k this year, 300k last year, 250k year before that you get the picture. Not passive income but <10 hours a week since well I am a math genius surprise surprise. Location Independent so can move anywhere 350k is impressive.

From my “market research” less than 1% of single men in the US have this income and less than 10% even in NYC LA.

What tips would people on this forum provide?

#2 · March 25, 2021, 7:27 am

Hello,

I would suggest that you start by asking a question.

What tips are you talking about?

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#3 · March 25, 2021, 3:05 pm

Are you go for short term or long term relationships?

Just one cent:

Go for women desperate in getting married
Go for women who are not super pretty (in the opinion of the "stupid mass"), but are indeed pretty in your distinct opinion
Prioritize self-investment. Only invest in her if she invests

BUT from the description you seem to be already good at the lover style so why do you want to try the provider style?

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#4 · March 25, 2021, 5:59 pm

I would be curious to hear about how you have been using your

Academic Credentials
Financial Wealth

towards achieving your goals in dating the women you desire.

Maybe we could be in a better position to contribute towards this discussion with more information.

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#5 · March 26, 2021, 7:12 am

Gotcha, I guess my question is: am I drastically missing out by choosing L style instead of P style?

Earning money drastically increases a mans personal value as it directly communicates power - the power to earn - and I have used this as an L since L is all about personal value. I have no experience with the P style unfortunately.

Also, P can be short and long term, see cycling girlfriends among certain men.

#6 · March 26, 2021, 9:24 am

I think what you could do is start out as a lover.
And, for the women that you enjoy being around, incorporate some of your provider style into the picture.
Then you can view how the dynamics change and observe whether you enjoy which dynamic better.

The great thing is that we don't need to choose either the lover or provider style.
We can experiment and see what best fits in various situations.

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#7 · March 26, 2021, 2:40 pm

Quote from selffriend on March 26, 2021, 2:40 pm
Quote from XQC on March 26, 2021, 7:12 am
Gotcha, I guess my question is: am I drastically missing out by choosing L style instead of P style?
Earning money drastically increases a mans personal value as it directly communicates power - the power to earn - and I have used this as an L since L is all about personal value. I have no experience with the P style unfortunately.
Also, P can be short and long term, see cycling girlfriends among certain men.
Alright, seems you are serious. From what I can tell, there is sugar daddy industry where you usually pay 30k-60k yearly for university/college students. In some developing countries, the price can be as low as 4K USD. Of course the price goes up with the quality.
There are also a lot of grey-area, informal sugar baby, who usually demand higher and are more picky on providers. Most of the time they don't identify themselves as sugar baby and they might address you as "boyfriend" rather than "sugar daddy" to their friends and family.
They usually have a not-very-wealthy family, and they satisfy at least five of the following conditions:
professionally PSed, high quality photography on social media;
Well-trained photography pose and body language;
Super clean, well chosen photography backgrounds;
master-student at ivy-league or private, art and music related institutions;
have done plastic surgery;
show-off luxury which they cannot afford by their official job;
first class flyer
streamer
participant of beauty pageant
If you met one of them, you start with inviting them to an expensive yacht party, resort, concert, or restaurant. Their time is valuable so on the first date you prepared an expensive gift like neckless, ear jewelry, or handbag if you are sure she likes the style. If she says she is available and accepts the gift, things are done. Later she'll show you the kind of gifts did her ex buy for her; you simply match the price range, nothing over it.
I am not sure if sharing detailed information is violating the forum rule.
OFF TOPIC:
One of the residences of MIT that I've visited has a bathroom where boys and girls showering together in the same room. Very curious if it is common for your school. Which rez is it?

Quote from XQC on March 26, 2021, 7:12 am
Gotcha, I guess my question is: am I drastically missing out by choosing L style instead of P style?
Earning money drastically increases a mans personal value as it directly communicates power - the power to earn - and I have used this as an L since L is all about personal value. I have no experience with the P style unfortunately.
Also, P can be short and long term, see cycling girlfriends among certain men.

Alright, seems you are serious. From what I can tell, there is sugar daddy industry where you usually pay 30k-60k yearly for university/college students. In some developing countries, the price can be as low as 4K USD. Of course the price goes up with the quality.

There are also a lot of grey-area, informal sugar baby, who usually demand higher and are more picky on providers. Most of the time they don't identify themselves as sugar baby and they might address you as "boyfriend" rather than "sugar daddy" to their friends and family.

They usually have a not-very-wealthy family, and they satisfy at least five of the following conditions:

professionally PSed, high quality photography on social media;
Well-trained photography pose and body language;
Super clean, well chosen photography backgrounds;
master-student at ivy-league or private, art and music related institutions;
have done plastic surgery;
show-off luxury which they cannot afford by their official job;
first class flyer
streamer
participant of beauty pageant

If you met one of them, you start with inviting them to an expensive yacht party, resort, concert, or restaurant. Their time is valuable so on the first date you prepared an expensive gift like neckless, ear jewelry, or handbag if you are sure she likes the style. If she says she is available and accepts the gift, things are done. Later she'll show you the kind of gifts did her ex buy for her; you simply match the price range, nothing over it.

I am not sure if sharing detailed information is violating the forum rule.

OFF TOPIC:

One of the residences of MIT that I've visited has a bathroom where boys and girls showering together in the same room. Very curious if it is common for your school. Which rez is it?