Becoming higher value

#1 · June 18, 2022, 3:10 pm

Hello guys,

As I read through SU, I agree with Lucio: when you're high value you don't have much to do. I removed some mental block of mine about dating while preparing my exam (I can do both otherwise I'll never have a love life).

I realised that actually it's true that when you are high-value it means that you give value just by your presence: your listening, your encouragement, you sharing info. Of course, sometimes you will take some value as it is normal.

However, this is what I noticed. I was at a table full of females and they were all very interested by what I had to say. Because I was respectful, thoughtful and had interesting things to say. What I mean is that there was no trick. It was just about conversing and being.