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Defense against common arguments used by PUA's
Quote from Growfast on July 12, 2022, 6:48 amI have seen a lot of people especially PUA's and their fans, redpill guys use the argument that one is being disingenuous and lacks self awareness.
They seem to use this a lot even when it's about opinions and it's subjective. (Even things like food or women or bikes)
The whole argument is this
You are being Disingenuous. Anyone who has self awareness will not agree to what you said.
At this point I tell them they are being rude by telling me I don't have self awareness and then I ignore them.
Though they will still try to argue or talk about how I backed off because I lost.
What are your thoughts on how to handle this?
I have seen a lot of people especially PUA's and their fans, redpill guys use the argument that one is being disingenuous and lacks self awareness.
They seem to use this a lot even when it's about opinions and it's subjective. (Even things like food or women or bikes)
The whole argument is this
You are being Disingenuous. Anyone who has self awareness will not agree to what you said.
At this point I tell them they are being rude by telling me I don't have self awareness and then I ignore them.
Though they will still try to argue or talk about how I backed off because I lost.
What are your thoughts on how to handle this?
Quote from Emily on July 12, 2022, 3:52 pmI think this is similar for political/religious franatics and conspiracists, claiming themselves to be the “enlightened ones” and judge/doubt everybody else.
In general, I would stay away from those people because it's not a great mentality (close-minded and divisive). But if I get caught in an argument with them, I'd say:
You are implying people can't be trusted. What made you so paranoid?
I think this is similar for political/religious franatics and conspiracists, claiming themselves to be the “enlightened ones” and judge/doubt everybody else.
In general, I would stay away from those people because it's not a great mentality (close-minded and divisive). But if I get caught in an argument with them, I'd say:
You are implying people can't be trusted. What made you so paranoid?
