For years I always thought that one of the things that prevented me from getting to the next level with women was because my home wasn’t nice enough.
After 20 years of blood / sweat / tears / frugality, I finally massively upgraded to a MUCH nicer home on a very prestigious avenue in a large city that has for been associated with wealth/class/celebrity residents etc for the last hundred years.
I love my new home and I would love it even if it had to be a big secret and no one could ever know where I lived. But I assumed it wouldn’t hurt me with the ladies.
Yet, I’m finding that women like me less, and treat me with less respect that they did when I lived in a far more modest place.
Nothing else about my personality, clothing, lifestyle etc has changed. If anything, I’m in slightly better physical shape now.
Women like my new place, but they seem to like ME less despite the upgrade. Several of the very same women that I was seeing before I moved have behaved less respectfully towards me and ended up dumping me.
I’m also having a harder time attracting new women. As an experiment, I’ve tried both mentioning my prestigious address, and not mentioning it. It makes no difference.
I have not been acting like some cocky asshole who expects to get laid just because I live in a nice place. (And even if I was behaving in that way, some guys do succeed in making that work for them.)
Obviously where a guy lives is not the only thing that matters. There are many other factors -- looks, personality, physical condition etc.
However, this question is specifically about how women react to where a guy lives. If you are reading this sentence, I thank you for your time and would very much appreciate hearing your thoughts on this matter.
For years I always thought that one of the things that prevented me from getting to the next level with women was because my home wasn’t nice enough.
After 20 years of blood / sweat / tears / frugality, I finally massively upgraded to a MUCH nicer home on a very prestigious avenue in a large city that has for been associated with wealth/class/celebrity residents etc for the last hundred years.
I love my new home and I would love it even if it had to be a big secret and no one could ever know where I lived. But I assumed it wouldn’t hurt me with the ladies.
Yet, I’m finding that women like me less, and treat me with less respect that they did when I lived in a far more modest place.
Nothing else about my personality, clothing, lifestyle etc has changed. If anything, I’m in slightly better physical shape now.
Women like my new place, but they seem to like ME less despite the upgrade. Several of the very same women that I was seeing before I moved have behaved less respectfully towards me and ended up dumping me.
I’m also having a harder time attracting new women. As an experiment, I’ve tried both mentioning my prestigious address, and not mentioning it. It makes no difference.
I have not been acting like some cocky asshole who expects to get laid just because I live in a nice place. (And even if I was behaving in that way, some guys do succeed in making that work for them.)
Obviously where a guy lives is not the only thing that matters. There are many other factors -- looks, personality, physical condition etc.
However, this question is specifically about how women react to where a guy lives. If you are reading this sentence, I thank you for your time and would very much appreciate hearing your thoughts on this matter.
