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Engaging with child role
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Anon_User on April 8, 2020, 1:38 am
From this article: https://thepowermoves.com/im-ok-youre-ok-summary-review/
"- Learn to see the child in others
As you learn to approach life with your adult first, learn to see the child in others. Do not engage people who comes at you with their child first."
What does it mean to not engage with their child role? Does that mean to not take up the parent role and judge/give emotional approval?
From this article: https://thepowermoves.com/im-ok-youre-ok-summary-review/
"- Learn to see the child in others
As you learn to approach life with your adult first, learn to see the child in others. Do not engage people who comes at you with their child first."
What does it mean to not engage with their child role? Does that mean to not take up the parent role and judge/give emotional approval?
Quote from Guest on April 8, 2020, 1:35 pm
Hello Rach!
That was more like a way of saying "build networks and relationships with people who can engage you and others as adults".
It's ok to be the parent or the judge in a few relationships. And in some situations that's exactly what you should go for.
But you probably want more adults around you, as they are generally better at helping you move forward.
Hello Rach!
That was more like a way of saying "build networks and relationships with people who can engage you and others as adults".
It's ok to be the parent or the judge in a few relationships. And in some situations that's exactly what you should go for.
But you probably want more adults around you, as they are generally better at helping you move forward.
Quote from Guest on April 8, 2020, 1:36 pm
P.s.: that was me not logged in.
-Lucio
P.s.: that was me not logged in.
-Lucio
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Anon_User on April 9, 2020, 6:06 am
Hi Lucio, thank you for expanding on the reasoning behind it. These concepts are new to me and really resonate!
Hi Lucio, thank you for expanding on the reasoning behind it. These concepts are new to me and really resonate!
