Quote from AJ on June 6, 2022, 8:23 am

Hello I am a student of medicine and I am a former professional football player. I am 18 years old and I have been on this site for almost a year now and I could say that this website is truly life changing. I would like to thank you, Lucio, for the efforts you have made and for the knowledge you offered and I owe you a great deal of appreciation.

this is my first time using forum so I am not sure if I should write my question here or not but I will just go ahead, if i shouldn't I apologize in advance.

I wanted to ask about humor. I am a funny guy and I have always been. I am just gifted with humor. But the more I get into the world of power dynamics the more I realize that humor isn't very powerful. I have also always had a serious, powerful, wise side to me which kind of gives me a split personality. I want your advice on humor because I realize that the more I use humor and make jokes, even though it feels good in the moment that people are dying of laughter because of me and people are enjoying their time around me and love me, the less powerful I feel when that dominant side of me comes out. Sometimes I feel like I can't take my self serious or that my humor frames me as the clumsy bad boy teenager that is entertaining and everything but not a dominant man. So I ask myself sometimes wether I should stop making jokes and be a serious person (which is powerful but not fun) but I feel like I would be throwing away a gift most people wish for. I love your content and I think you are a fair person who always gives amazing responses.