Quote from Lucio Buffalmano on February 14, 2020, 9:24 am

Hey man,

I wasn't planning on reviewing those.
Thank you for putting them on the map though, maybe in the future. I feel there is enough material in the dating reviews section right now. Almost all the biggest names are in there. I'm now reviewing the latest product from Richard La Ruina, which was one of the biggest name in UK at the time when pick-up went mainstream (and it's a good book, BTW).

But you made me curious.
When you say "excellent", are you talking about the product, or the idea of maintaing attraction in a relationship?

Two quick notes:

1. For maintaining attraction, as long as you keep working on yourself, that should be more the female's worry, not the man's
2. When it comes to "getting your ex back", I never believed much in the concept of getting your ex back. Still, there are a few things you can do, but I'm skeptical that you can build a whole product around it

Finally, I see he's got a money back guarantee on his products (at least the logo is there, but I didn't find it in written format).
Why not trying it out?

Quote from Guest on February 15, 2020, 5:15 pm

Ok but what do you think of him real quick? You can watch a few of his YB vids. I'm not the op but im curious

Quote from Lucio Buffalmano on February 16, 2020, 2:47 am

Quote from Guest on February 15, 2020, 5:15 pm

Ok but what do you think of him real quick? You can watch a few of his YB vids. I'm not the op but im curious

He seems to stress some basic concepts over and over.
Which is good. And which is also the reason why it's not a high priority for me to review: albeit I plan to make a good list of resources to tackle the basics of emotional and social intelligence, ThePowerMoves is not geared towards beginners. It's more for those who already have the basics and want to go to the next level.

Beyond the basics, I wasn't too impressed with the advice:

"get her phone number or kiss her" makes little sense to me.
Kissing a girl early looks powerful to people. But it's all smoke: it brings no benefits whatsoever and only adds risk and uncertainty.

But this is only a perfunctory review.
Cheers.

Quote from Guest on February 20, 2020, 2:41 pm

True that, there are so many dating 'experts' out there and selling their products really overpriced whereas the process of love is really a convoluded matter and seeing from his videos, he is using a lot of universal examples of building attraction whereas each woman has her own subconscious criteria of what to look for in a man that creates attraction. But the most important thing for me was the maintenance of the attraction.. where women test their man to see his emotional strength e.g. misbehaving to see whether he puts her in her place, asking him to do things or help around at anytime of the day to see if he is mr. nice guy, its nitty gritty subtle stuff like this that if you dont take the right actions it can lower attraction and possibly kill it if this pattern goes on like this. So maintenance of the attraction part is what i am most worried because its the maintennace of attraction that is key because everything is lovey dovey and i will be with you forever when the relationship starts and its in its beginning but when months, a year, years+ go by its the maintenance of attraction that will save or break the relationship and this is where most men fail and reasons for why statistics like '50% divorce rates these days' and 'women initating divorce 70% of the time' exists. its the maintenance that Dan Bacon from themoderman covers in the product 'Make her love you for life' but have no clue how that program is.

Quote from Lucio Buffalmano on February 26, 2020, 8:09 am

Man, I don't think that a man who's working on himself should worry too much about "maintaining attraction".

To me, that's a defensive mindset.

Put a man and a woman on a long-term relationship, and make both of them improve their lives equally, the position of the woman relative to the man will naturally deteriorate.
That makes worrying about "maintain attraction" a non-issue for men.

Also, on really long-term relationships, love and attraction overlap and turn into companionship love which, again, makes "maintaining attraction" a non-issue. Even from the woman's side.

But if anyone has to worry about that, let the woman worry about it. Not you.

 

Quote from Lucio Buffalmano on February 28, 2020, 12:18 pm

BTW, the latest post addresses just that:

• How to maintain power and attraction in LTRs