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#1 · December 25, 2023, 6:39 pm

Quote from Luli92 on December 25, 2023, 6:39 pm
Hello Everyone
I think i'm the newest in PU. So, let's Introduce myself. Sorry for advance for my english as its not fluent and it can be that its not always grammaticly right.
Im Luli, 31 Years old from Switzerland. Im happily married and have a 1,5 year old son. I work for a Bank and im also a Footballcoach.
The reason for joining PU is that I want to be a high quality and value person. I aspire to become one of the best football coaches in the world and in this hyper competitive niche, you need to have absolute worldclass social skills. And to get into those High Quality Circle in my Niche, i thought PU can certainly help me with that.
Today I think im pretty average. My Bodylanguage is ok, but not perfect. I fidge way to much and even though I am aware of it, sometims I cant stop it. My frames are very inconsistent. Nameley very strong in the fields im an expert, but very fragile in others or when I got caught off guard. When I got caught off guard, it seems like I freeze and don't know what to say. In my eyes then, I look very weak. For sure I don't know but i assume i look weak. And I don't like it.
Im happyily married, but thats more the result of common sense rather than good social skills. With women in general I always acted instinctively.
Im working on myself since I'm maybe 18 or so. But after completing 1% of this course i realized, boy did I knew shit about Social Dynamics and Skills. Its already a big mindsetshift, because now I understand that I am an blatant taker. I'm so selfish and cared only about whats in it for me and never cared what I can give to others. It opened my Eyes. I can't count how many opportunities for collaboration i missed because it was always about me. Needles to say that I dont have a big social network. I do have like 4 friends and those friendships are very deep indeed. But professionally, I know almost no one here. But with this course, this will Change!
Thanks for everyone who took the time to read my lenghty Intro. Lets keep growing togheter, make Money and expand our social Network beyond borders. :) Im very happy to be here!
Kind regards
Luli

Hello Everyone

I think i'm the newest in PU. So, let's Introduce myself. Sorry for advance for my english as its not fluent and it can be that its not always grammaticly right.

Im Luli, 31 Years old from Switzerland. Im happily married and have a 1,5 year old son. I work for a Bank and im also a Footballcoach.

The reason for joining PU is that I want to be a high quality and value person. I aspire to become one of the best football coaches in the world and in this hyper competitive niche, you need to have absolute worldclass social skills. And to get into those High Quality Circle in my Niche, i thought PU can certainly help me with that.

Today I think im pretty average. My Bodylanguage is ok, but not perfect. I fidge way to much and even though I am aware of it, sometims I cant stop it. My frames are very inconsistent. Nameley very strong in the fields im an expert, but very fragile in others or when I got caught off guard. When I got caught off guard, it seems like I freeze and don't know what to say. In my eyes then, I look very weak. For sure I don't know but i assume i look weak. And I don't like it.

Im happyily married, but thats more the result of common sense rather than good social skills. With women in general I always acted instinctively.

Im working on myself since I'm maybe 18 or so. But after completing 1% of this course i realized, boy did I knew shit about Social Dynamics and Skills. Its already a big mindsetshift, because now I understand that I am an blatant taker. I'm so selfish and cared only about whats in it for me and never cared what I can give to others. It opened my Eyes. I can't count how many opportunities for collaboration i missed because it was always about me. Needles to say that I dont have a big social network. I do have like 4 friends and those friendships are very deep indeed. But professionally, I know almost no one here. But with this course, this will Change!

Thanks for everyone who took the time to read my lenghty Intro. Lets keep growing togheter, make Money and expand our social Network beyond borders. :) Im very happy to be here!

Kind regards
Luli

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#2 · December 25, 2023, 9:32 pm

Hello Luli and welcome here!

Thank you for sharing your background.
And man, what a cool goal to go from working in a bank, to football coach.

Also, I'm glad you've already found such a big improvement area to work on.
That alone can make you take a huge step forward.

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