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Kellvo Remade - A Battleplan for Moving Towards Popularity and Success in College

#1 · October 20, 2023, 9:53 pm

Quote from Kellvo on October 20, 2023, 9:53 pm
Hello everyone! It has been a long while since posting in this prestigious and illustrious forum; many changes have occurred, much maturity has been undertaken, and overall I am ready to return as a high-flying Eagle who is aware of Power Dynamics and benevolent (in general) at the same time.
So first things first, the previous journal is something that I won't be posting in again. That belonged to a much less evolved, much less mature and much angrier individual than the person I am today. Instead, I am making a new journal, devoted to college dynamics, self-improvement and the cultivation of long-lasting friendships and, with higher value in time, a successful relationship.
Laying out the battleplan, here is what I know:
I have three months to get ready for college; due to my mistakes, I completely failed the last time and am getting ready to succeed with flying colors the next time.
I am becoming an engineer; I want to defy the stereotype by being both incredibly smart AND socially adept. To do this, I am studying social skills material regularly as well as studying STEM courses online at Brilliant.
I am cultivating a habit of studying everyday, starting with self-improvement material that can readily be transferred towards homework at college.
I am studying material ahead of time so that I can excel in my classes, potentially serve as a tutor and overall gain a reputation for intelligence and high-value service.
I am at around 20% body fat and want to reduce this to 10% within three months; I have between 20-30 pounds to lose.
I actively want to looksmax by losing body weight and gaining muscle, practicing mewing and hard chewing, getting a suit, trimming effectively and growing a beard.
I aim to go deeper into the friendships I have already made at the gym with high-quality men, creating fulfilling conversation, getting phone numbers and arranging activities without interrupting their workouts.
I aim to take a leadership role in various clubs, and even start my own based around self-improvement and getting ready for college in every way. To do this, I aim to work within the existing power structure at my college, working with the Success Center and other clubs.
I aim to learn some basketball, which is a major college sport here, and practice with my friend, as well as meeting new athlete friends this way by showing skill and fitness along with a social attitude. Additionally, I intend to be fitter by riding my bike, swimming and practicing martial arts.
And, of course, I am continuing to exercise 6-7 days a week, pursuing bodybuilding in order to build an aesthetic and functional physique that can, attract a wonderful woman, gain the respect of men and do all the things I want to do.
Overall, my aim is to be the Big Man on Campus - to excel in college, have a wide social circle of high-quality friends and establish a relationship with a high-quality woman. I intend to review what it's like at a community college for around two years, followed by a university thereafter, with all the Power Dynamics involved in it. The goal is to actively take a leadership role in college, gain a sterling reputation and make the most of my time there, as well as setting a powerful and loving foundation for thereafter.
PS. Lucio, I found Seduction University to be a very enlightening and clarifying course that really laid out the foundations of creating high value and mutually blissful relationships. I would love to review it here, if it is still available. If you have a link to it, that would really make my day. :)

Hello everyone! It has been a long while since posting in this prestigious and illustrious forum; many changes have occurred, much maturity has been undertaken, and overall I am ready to return as a high-flying Eagle who is aware of Power Dynamics and benevolent (in general) at the same time.

So first things first, the previous journal is something that I won't be posting in again. That belonged to a much less evolved, much less mature and much angrier individual than the person I am today. Instead, I am making a new journal, devoted to college dynamics, self-improvement and the cultivation of long-lasting friendships and, with higher value in time, a successful relationship.

Laying out the battleplan, here is what I know:

I have three months to get ready for college; due to my mistakes, I completely failed the last time and am getting ready to succeed with flying colors the next time.
I am becoming an engineer; I want to defy the stereotype by being both incredibly smart AND socially adept. To do this, I am studying social skills material regularly as well as studying STEM courses online at Brilliant.
I am cultivating a habit of studying everyday, starting with self-improvement material that can readily be transferred towards homework at college.
I am studying material ahead of time so that I can excel in my classes, potentially serve as a tutor and overall gain a reputation for intelligence and high-value service.
I am at around 20% body fat and want to reduce this to 10% within three months; I have between 20-30 pounds to lose.
I actively want to looksmax by losing body weight and gaining muscle, practicing mewing and hard chewing, getting a suit, trimming effectively and growing a beard.
I aim to go deeper into the friendships I have already made at the gym with high-quality men, creating fulfilling conversation, getting phone numbers and arranging activities without interrupting their workouts.
I aim to take a leadership role in various clubs, and even start my own based around self-improvement and getting ready for college in every way. To do this, I aim to work within the existing power structure at my college, working with the Success Center and other clubs.
I aim to learn some basketball, which is a major college sport here, and practice with my friend, as well as meeting new athlete friends this way by showing skill and fitness along with a social attitude. Additionally, I intend to be fitter by riding my bike, swimming and practicing martial arts.
And, of course, I am continuing to exercise 6-7 days a week, pursuing bodybuilding in order to build an aesthetic and functional physique that can, attract a wonderful woman, gain the respect of men and do all the things I want to do.

Overall, my aim is to be the Big Man on Campus - to excel in college, have a wide social circle of high-quality friends and establish a relationship with a high-quality woman. I intend to review what it's like at a community college for around two years, followed by a university thereafter, with all the Power Dynamics involved in it. The goal is to actively take a leadership role in college, gain a sterling reputation and make the most of my time there, as well as setting a powerful and loving foundation for thereafter.

PS. Lucio, I found Seduction University to be a very enlightening and clarifying course that really laid out the foundations of creating high value and mutually blissful relationships. I would love to review it here, if it is still available. If you have a link to it, that would really make my day. :)

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#2 · October 20, 2023, 10:38 pm

Hello Kellvo, good to see you back man!

I second the idea of a new journal: past the basics, onto a new level, and a new journal chapter as well.

Few random comments that are just my 2 cents opinions:

Very low percentages of bodyfat may not the be healthiest choice (but I'm no expert and you may know a lot better)
I'd consider for you to enjoy a party phase as well in college. Do all the sports, leadership, and learning. But a party phase in life may also be good to have
Big Man on Campus, great, go for it if that's what you want. Consider that you can also date around with a more of a "silent killer approach", which may actually even have some advantages of the Big Man in some cases and with some girl types

All the rest, great stuff and rock on.

Love the people who lead the way and destroy trite stereotypes -and it's also empowering to think of yourself as "carrying the banner" and being a positive example for the whole engineers category-.

P.S.;
Link to SU's curriculum.

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#3 · October 21, 2023, 12:43 am

Quote from Kellvo on October 21, 2023, 12:43 am
Good to see you too, man!
Silent Killer, that makes a lot of sense. Reminds me of how a woman said she loved a violent man. I firmly believe that having the capacity for not only violence, but killing, is essential towards not only seducing a wonderful woman, but having a good life and being able to handle what comes up in life.
To do this, I'll go through a healthy psychopathy - going on the hunt, assessing women coldly and playing the game for my own ends.
Off topic - perhaps if more civilians in Israel were ready for armed conflict even outside military service, this tragedy could have been averted.
Yes, I aim to join a fraternity at university. While there are more prestigious options, I noticed that they lacked a Greek Life. Being able to take part in that would not only be fun for its own sake, but work wonders in networking and learning Power Dynamics.
Now, as I promised, I'll review college dynamics. To do this, I start with reviewing the past. Where did I fail and how, what did I do right and how I'll do better next time. I'll be crossing this over with studying Seduction University (much gratitude for the link) in assessing how I did with women.
So first things first, I am in an acting class. I am sitting at the top and center, looking around and looking other people in the eyes in a broad and expansive posture. There are three women who like me. One is a very feminine and very shy lady, the second is a very aloof supermodel and the third is a very curvaceous and extroverted woman. All three are extremely attractive in different ways. Now, I did excellently in self-development, my looks helped and I came across very dominant and courageous (I approached the first and second) - all good things - but I made many mistakes and had many flaws as well:
To paraphrase Seduction University, I completely forgot to just enjoy the seduction and the moment; I was very focused on my ambitions.
I was also coming into it MGTOW; I carried a very angry and 'no-bullshit' approach with me (the last journal has plenty of examples of that), where a high-power and more accommodating approach would have worked better.
I was just looking for validation at the time; I teased women and never made anything serious with them.
I was very fat (~280 lbs.) at the time.
I was very immature for my age; I had unresolved Autism and spoke in a high-pitched, effeminate voice.
Because of that, I was low-status (at least to men) and had trouble making male friends, except for the Big Man on Campus who seemed to admire me.
I was very socially inept; in retrospect, cold approaching was not the best solution when I had a social circle I could cultivate and benefit off of. I most likely came across as a player.
I had no direction for college and was just having fun instead of taking it seriously.
Overall, I definitely was waving red flags as well, and that heavily influenced how women treated me. I take full accountability for my mistakes and aim to learn from them; I selected to be treated in a very sexual and very unloving way. I allowed the Manosphere to have a very toxic influence on me, and if I had access to your site then, there is no doubt that I would have taken a FAR better course. The Alpha Male archetype is definitely of value but has some big limitations as well; he is low warmth and has trouble truly opening up to a woman. On top of that, although I was attracting the best women, I was nowhere near as high-value as I could be.
I estimate I was at parity with the highest-value woman there - and, considering hypergamy, I was 'not yet there'. Above all, I just knew that I wasn't yet ready for a woman in my life; I was very toxic and ill-developed at the time. Readers, always trust your instincts! They show you EXACTLY where you are at. In this case, I was at the top of the dominance hierarchy - for females. For males, I was rock bottom.
Now, taking a step back and assessing myself and the three ladies, here is what I notice:
Woman 1, the very feminine and shy woman, and woman 2, the very aloof supermodel, were roughly equal value (although I estimate the first one had more, especially for long-term relationships) - both attracted many men with ease in different ways. Woman 3 was very physically attractive and extroverted but was of lower value. This impacted how they treated me; the first and second were simultaneously showing very strong attraction and throwing shit tests at me, while the third was much more receptive (but I wasn't attracted to her).
Despite my many flaws, I showed many signs of high-value - courage, ambition, gregariousness, masculinity (besides my high tone of voice) and presenting myself well (despite my body fat). However, I was entirely unavailable. That increased sexual attraction while creating discomfort; I was essentially running constant, unconscious Dread Game (I wouldn't today).
Woman 1 could not stop looking at me (nor I at her). She had the look of a woman in love. At the same time, when I approached her (wrong move; I wouldn't now) she was like stone. I never opened her up. I was equal value to her but completely unavailable; additionally, I was completely ignorant of Power Dynamics. Today, I would work the room, work on my masculinity and focus on losing weight. I would've surpassed her in 2-3 months, and then I would move in from a position of power. She ended up with a man below her for a while; the last time I saw her, she was with a very high-value man (although I noticed he was following her - big mistake, and she was still looking lovingly at me).
Woman 2 also could not stop looking at me, but in a different way - it was overtly challenging and sexual. She would frequently and very overtly flirt with her body. I was slightly higher-value than her, although I didn't like her at all. I failed a few shit tests, asked her out and got rejected because I didn't decisively follow up, and was humiliated by her because I presented myself in a very immature way after she rejected me. But I quickly recovered, ignored her while flirting with other women (I wouldn't flirt with other women today). She became very warm and submissive, and I was friendly towards her. In retrospect, I didn't open up back (my mistake); if I did, I could've made her my girlfriend. Last time I saw her (driving by), she was still looking at me in that challenging and sexual way.
Woman 3 was not as invested in me as the other two, although was very sexual towards me. Unlike the other two, she gave off many signs of being promiscuous. I was never interested in her, and her interest faded after a while. Furthermore, her interest wasn't as intense. I was definitely out of her league.
There was one other man in the room who approached my value - very masculine, short, he played baseball and was very popular among both men and women. He showed interest in woman 1 (not reciprocated) and woman 2 showed interest in him (also not reciprocated) while trying to make me jealous, lol. Despite my many flaws, we became friends after I showed interest to woman 2 and was turned down (although she was still interested in me). I think he was impressed; she gave off a very 'unapproachable' vibe. Being friends with him was the first step towards becoming masculine; because he was the most popular there, everyone else gave me a chance.
Overall, the same theme would repeat itself many times - very high-value women (physically anyway) would be very interested in me while also throwing shit tests my way. I handled it poorly; I stepped on a lot of toes, hurt a lot of people and ruined a lot of good chances. I wouldn't now. On the other hand, the women who were very high-value and had other things going for them always treated me well; even though I knew I wasn't ready for women, there was natural chemistry and rapport. They always gave me second chances and were kindly overt in their interest with me, which I, in my awkward and not-as-high-value way I could be at the time, returned. Universally, they were in relationships or married, which removed them as an option for me.
Today, I would prepare myself before going to college; I would get in shape, practice my social skills and have a clear plan of what I want to go into. I have much more maturity behind me now than when I was last at college - and last on the Power Moves, for that matter. Today, like you said on Seduction University, I would approach dating from efficiency, building social circles, gradually and dominantly getting to know women and always projecting high status with approachability. My goal is to approach dating from a 'farming' mindset, cultivating many high-value options and choosing one while continuously increasing value myself. At the same time, my aim is to keep the hunting instincts sharp by being overtly sexual (yet respectful), constantly assessing myself and the situation and keeping my warrior instincts alive and well.
Next step is to leave MGTOW while taking the best things from it. It is a very high-power strategy for men as a whole, but it lacks warmth and ultimately only leads to lose-lose solutions for men and women alike. I aim to develop a better way.
What would, from your perspective, have you done differently Lucio?

Good to see you too, man!

Silent Killer, that makes a lot of sense. Reminds me of how a woman said she loved a violent man. I firmly believe that having the capacity for not only violence, but killing, is essential towards not only seducing a wonderful woman, but having a good life and being able to handle what comes up in life.

To do this, I'll go through a healthy psychopathy - going on the hunt, assessing women coldly and playing the game for my own ends.

Off topic - perhaps if more civilians in Israel were ready for armed conflict even outside military service, this tragedy could have been averted.

Yes, I aim to join a fraternity at university. While there are more prestigious options, I noticed that they lacked a Greek Life. Being able to take part in that would not only be fun for its own sake, but work wonders in networking and learning Power Dynamics.

Now, as I promised, I'll review college dynamics. To do this, I start with reviewing the past. Where did I fail and how, what did I do right and how I'll do better next time. I'll be crossing this over with studying Seduction University (much gratitude for the link) in assessing how I did with women.

So first things first, I am in an acting class. I am sitting at the top and center, looking around and looking other people in the eyes in a broad and expansive posture. There are three women who like me. One is a very feminine and very shy lady, the second is a very aloof supermodel and the third is a very curvaceous and extroverted woman. All three are extremely attractive in different ways. Now, I did excellently in self-development, my looks helped and I came across very dominant and courageous (I approached the first and second) - all good things - but I made many mistakes and had many flaws as well:

To paraphrase Seduction University, I completely forgot to just enjoy the seduction and the moment; I was very focused on my ambitions.
I was also coming into it MGTOW; I carried a very angry and 'no-bullshit' approach with me (the last journal has plenty of examples of that), where a high-power and more accommodating approach would have worked better.
I was just looking for validation at the time; I teased women and never made anything serious with them.
I was very fat (~280 lbs.) at the time.
I was very immature for my age; I had unresolved Autism and spoke in a high-pitched, effeminate voice.
Because of that, I was low-status (at least to men) and had trouble making male friends, except for the Big Man on Campus who seemed to admire me.
I was very socially inept; in retrospect, cold approaching was not the best solution when I had a social circle I could cultivate and benefit off of. I most likely came across as a player.
I had no direction for college and was just having fun instead of taking it seriously.

Overall, I definitely was waving red flags as well, and that heavily influenced how women treated me. I take full accountability for my mistakes and aim to learn from them; I selected to be treated in a very sexual and very unloving way. I allowed the Manosphere to have a very toxic influence on me, and if I had access to your site then, there is no doubt that I would have taken a FAR better course. The Alpha Male archetype is definitely of value but has some big limitations as well; he is low warmth and has trouble truly opening up to a woman. On top of that, although I was attracting the best women, I was nowhere near as high-value as I could be.

I estimate I was at parity with the highest-value woman there - and, considering hypergamy, I was 'not yet there'. Above all, I just knew that I wasn't yet ready for a woman in my life; I was very toxic and ill-developed at the time. Readers, always trust your instincts! They show you EXACTLY where you are at. In this case, I was at the top of the dominance hierarchy - for females. For males, I was rock bottom.

Now, taking a step back and assessing myself and the three ladies, here is what I notice:

Woman 1, the very feminine and shy woman, and woman 2, the very aloof supermodel, were roughly equal value (although I estimate the first one had more, especially for long-term relationships) - both attracted many men with ease in different ways. Woman 3 was very physically attractive and extroverted but was of lower value. This impacted how they treated me; the first and second were simultaneously showing very strong attraction and throwing shit tests at me, while the third was much more receptive (but I wasn't attracted to her).
Despite my many flaws, I showed many signs of high-value - courage, ambition, gregariousness, masculinity (besides my high tone of voice) and presenting myself well (despite my body fat). However, I was entirely unavailable. That increased sexual attraction while creating discomfort; I was essentially running constant, unconscious Dread Game (I wouldn't today).
Woman 1 could not stop looking at me (nor I at her). She had the look of a woman in love. At the same time, when I approached her (wrong move; I wouldn't now) she was like stone. I never opened her up. I was equal value to her but completely unavailable; additionally, I was completely ignorant of Power Dynamics. Today, I would work the room, work on my masculinity and focus on losing weight. I would've surpassed her in 2-3 months, and then I would move in from a position of power. She ended up with a man below her for a while; the last time I saw her, she was with a very high-value man (although I noticed he was following her - big mistake, and she was still looking lovingly at me).
Woman 2 also could not stop looking at me, but in a different way - it was overtly challenging and sexual. She would frequently and very overtly flirt with her body. I was slightly higher-value than her, although I didn't like her at all. I failed a few shit tests, asked her out and got rejected because I didn't decisively follow up, and was humiliated by her because I presented myself in a very immature way after she rejected me. But I quickly recovered, ignored her while flirting with other women (I wouldn't flirt with other women today). She became very warm and submissive, and I was friendly towards her. In retrospect, I didn't open up back (my mistake); if I did, I could've made her my girlfriend. Last time I saw her (driving by), she was still looking at me in that challenging and sexual way.
Woman 3 was not as invested in me as the other two, although was very sexual towards me. Unlike the other two, she gave off many signs of being promiscuous. I was never interested in her, and her interest faded after a while. Furthermore, her interest wasn't as intense. I was definitely out of her league.
There was one other man in the room who approached my value - very masculine, short, he played baseball and was very popular among both men and women. He showed interest in woman 1 (not reciprocated) and woman 2 showed interest in him (also not reciprocated) while trying to make me jealous, lol. Despite my many flaws, we became friends after I showed interest to woman 2 and was turned down (although she was still interested in me). I think he was impressed; she gave off a very 'unapproachable' vibe. Being friends with him was the first step towards becoming masculine; because he was the most popular there, everyone else gave me a chance.

Overall, the same theme would repeat itself many times - very high-value women (physically anyway) would be very interested in me while also throwing shit tests my way. I handled it poorly; I stepped on a lot of toes, hurt a lot of people and ruined a lot of good chances. I wouldn't now. On the other hand, the women who were very high-value and had other things going for them always treated me well; even though I knew I wasn't ready for women, there was natural chemistry and rapport. They always gave me second chances and were kindly overt in their interest with me, which I, in my awkward and not-as-high-value way I could be at the time, returned. Universally, they were in relationships or married, which removed them as an option for me.

Today, I would prepare myself before going to college; I would get in shape, practice my social skills and have a clear plan of what I want to go into. I have much more maturity behind me now than when I was last at college - and last on the Power Moves, for that matter. Today, like you said on Seduction University, I would approach dating from efficiency, building social circles, gradually and dominantly getting to know women and always projecting high status with approachability. My goal is to approach dating from a 'farming' mindset, cultivating many high-value options and choosing one while continuously increasing value myself. At the same time, my aim is to keep the hunting instincts sharp by being overtly sexual (yet respectful), constantly assessing myself and the situation and keeping my warrior instincts alive and well.

Next step is to leave MGTOW while taking the best things from it. It is a very high-power strategy for men as a whole, but it lacks warmth and ultimately only leads to lose-lose solutions for men and women alike. I aim to develop a better way.

What would, from your perspective, have you done differently Lucio?

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#4 · October 22, 2023, 9:46 pm

Good to see you again Kellvo!

Silent Killer, that makes a lot of sense. Reminds me of how a woman said she loved a violent man. I firmly believe that having the capacity for not only violence, but killing, is essential towards not only seducing a wonderful woman, but having a good life and being able to handle what comes up in life.
To do this, I'll go through a healthy psychopathy - going on the hunt, assessing women coldly and playing the game for my own ends.
Off topic - perhaps if more civilians in Israel were ready for armed conflict even outside military service, this tragedy could have been averted.

You could talk to women 1-to-1 without getting too deep in any particular social circle.

Sounds like you got lots of things going on!
Maybe you could open up new threads for each one to go deeper.

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#5 · October 25, 2023, 12:02 am

Quote from Kellvo on October 25, 2023, 12:02 am
Quote from Matthew Whitewood on October 22, 2023, 9:46 pm
Good to see you again Kellvo!
Silent Killer, that makes a lot of sense. Reminds me of how a woman said she loved a violent man. I firmly believe that having the capacity for not only violence, but killing, is essential towards not only seducing a wonderful woman, but having a good life and being able to handle what comes up in life.
To do this, I'll go through a healthy psychopathy - going on the hunt, assessing women coldly and playing the game for my own ends.
Off topic - perhaps if more civilians in Israel were ready for armed conflict even outside military service, this tragedy could have been averted.
You could talk to women 1-to-1 without getting too deep in any particular social circle.
Sounds like you got lots of things going on!
Maybe you could open up new threads for each one to go deeper.
That would be a good idea - there's this business that I've been incubating in my mind for a while now and I've been laying down the groundwork - what it is about, how I am going about it and what purpose it is about. I just might make a separate journal about that - as it ties into the self-improvement community, I am confident that we will all benefit from it.
And talking with women 1-1 is a good idea; I had an episode where I cold-approached women all the time. While it's not my thing now (I'm looking to become the highest value I can and then find a wife), I might take it up again simply for the purpose of building friendships, social circles and social proof. Plus, practicing ahead of time with a 'dating period' will help me later, as well as bringing many fulfilling and educational experiences into my life.
Anyway, reviewing the previous entry, the following things stand out:
All three women were poor mates in different ways - the first was excessively timid, the second very bitchy and the third overtly slutty. It showed the bar of what I could attract at the time, and I am far better than that now.
The other very attractive women I mentioned often, although not always, only had their appearance going for them; as a confident, dominant and good-looking man (but not much else), I basically attracted my reciprocal. I was low-quality in many ways and fully admit it; I did a lot of work on myself since then.
The cool guy I mentioned had other things going for him - playing a sport, (obviously) being in shape and having a large social circle. All things I can learn from and repeat.
Related to the topic of this journal, my goal is to plan ahead of time and get into a really good university; I have between 2-3 years before I go to a university. To do this, I will be mindful of the selector power dynamics involved and aim to enter from a high-power and high-warmth approach. The first and most important step is obviously to get really good grades. The second step is to demonstrate leadership and high-power qualities. And the third step is to stand out positively in other ways, such as with the steps mentioned above. My goal is to portray myself as a real catch in many ways, and then add further value by deeply investigating different universities, asking what value I can bring to them, and approaching them in a personal and high-value way.

Quote from Matthew Whitewood on October 22, 2023, 9:46 pm
Good to see you again Kellvo!
Silent Killer, that makes a lot of sense. Reminds me of how a woman said she loved a violent man. I firmly believe that having the capacity for not only violence, but killing, is essential towards not only seducing a wonderful woman, but having a good life and being able to handle what comes up in life.
To do this, I'll go through a healthy psychopathy - going on the hunt, assessing women coldly and playing the game for my own ends.
Off topic - perhaps if more civilians in Israel were ready for armed conflict even outside military service, this tragedy could have been averted.
You could talk to women 1-to-1 without getting too deep in any particular social circle.
Sounds like you got lots of things going on!
Maybe you could open up new threads for each one to go deeper.

That would be a good idea - there's this business that I've been incubating in my mind for a while now and I've been laying down the groundwork - what it is about, how I am going about it and what purpose it is about. I just might make a separate journal about that - as it ties into the self-improvement community, I am confident that we will all benefit from it.

And talking with women 1-1 is a good idea; I had an episode where I cold-approached women all the time. While it's not my thing now (I'm looking to become the highest value I can and then find a wife), I might take it up again simply for the purpose of building friendships, social circles and social proof. Plus, practicing ahead of time with a 'dating period' will help me later, as well as bringing many fulfilling and educational experiences into my life.

Anyway, reviewing the previous entry, the following things stand out:

All three women were poor mates in different ways - the first was excessively timid, the second very bitchy and the third overtly slutty. It showed the bar of what I could attract at the time, and I am far better than that now.
The other very attractive women I mentioned often, although not always, only had their appearance going for them; as a confident, dominant and good-looking man (but not much else), I basically attracted my reciprocal. I was low-quality in many ways and fully admit it; I did a lot of work on myself since then.
The cool guy I mentioned had other things going for him - playing a sport, (obviously) being in shape and having a large social circle. All things I can learn from and repeat.

Related to the topic of this journal, my goal is to plan ahead of time and get into a really good university; I have between 2-3 years before I go to a university. To do this, I will be mindful of the selector power dynamics involved and aim to enter from a high-power and high-warmth approach. The first and most important step is obviously to get really good grades. The second step is to demonstrate leadership and high-power qualities. And the third step is to stand out positively in other ways, such as with the steps mentioned above. My goal is to portray myself as a real catch in many ways, and then add further value by deeply investigating different universities, asking what value I can bring to them, and approaching them in a personal and high-value way.

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