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Another tool is the "positive arrogance" approach to "challenges".
This is quite "extreme" in a way, and you want to be careful not to take this attitude into everything.
But it can be very effective and high power, at the right times.
Such as, instead of thinking "damn, I don't have the courage to dance in front of my frineds, you think":
What sort of idiotic dancing monkey would even do that?
Sure not me (I'm better than that)
One may say that it's an "ego-defensive" reaction.
And... They may have a point.
May.
But... the answer to that is even more "positive arrogance":
Besides the fact that anyone who believed Freud and his made up BS is an idiot... Who even cares?
These are some great insights. If there's one thing I learned in PU and putting it in practice in real life, is that subtleties make more of a difference than I imagined most of my life.
