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Power Dynamics at its best?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mVT1_VrywJY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wZGenX_Vwk0
Hi guys I saw these and couple of other videos and what struck me is the power dynamic at play here, vitaly is a master at this, in both these videos he either gets most people to go on the offense or on the defense, what this means is both the reactions believe in Vitaly's frame, in the gym example you could ignore his challenge but that just looks weak. I have been toying with the idea of a good response to such a challenge and imagine it would go something like this
V: Do you even lift man?
Me: Who are you?
V: A person who's gonna train you to lift more.(I can either acknowledge his frame or ignore it)
Me:That's cool, I have no plans of lifting more now.
Second exchange
V: You smell like a virgin to me
Me: That's unfortunate
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WOswhXWN4vA
Here is another of Vitaly's frame control power,
What would have been the socially smooth way for the girl to refuse giving it to him?
I would love to hear your opinions and analysis on this.
Thanks
