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A female classmate is playing power games with me: how should I handle it?
My female classmates keeps playing games on me in terms of power manipulation.How can I end the cycle of games or is it not even a worthy investment to end?Is this a shit test?She seems to frame herself with the Judge role. She seems to want with dominate me mentally speaking with power games.What would you do guys do?
Context:High school setting
Hi, welcome. You haven't provided us much to work with, therefore it would probably be in your best interest to provide some examples.
Sounds like they put you in the submissive/power down/Beta role. Don't worry, it happens to all of us one time or another. You can get out of it though. Expect some conflict though, especially from those most invested in keeping you there. Here's my long and short term advice:
Long term solutions - Learn power dynamics, cultivate masculinity, and become a high-quality man. Grab the Social Power course if at all possible.
More immediate solutions - Defensive: Find sources of validation other than women, practice stoic principles and meditate, practice situational and internal awareness. Offensive: Counter with your own games (ignoring and showing contempt and haughty superiority is a good place to start), target their weaknesses, and find ways where you are superior and can take the Judge role for yourself.
Good luck to you!
