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Stef on August 30, 2020, 8:00 am
This is great advice from a tactical point of view to avoid unnecesary conflict/escalations and for your peace of mind.As long as...
Absolutely, it comes with all the exceptions you state.
If you just interpret everything in the best light possible, then there are plenty of situations when you're setting yourself to being played, or to look submissive/stupid.
But if you choose to do it strategically, then it can be an effective technique of frame control, as well as giving people the benefit of the doubt and avoid escalations based on miscommunication.
Quote from
Stef on August 30, 2020, 8:00 am
This is great advice from a tactical point of view to avoid unnecesary conflict/escalations and for your peace of mind.As long as...
Absolutely, it comes with all the exceptions you state.
If you just interpret everything in the best light possible, then there are plenty of situations when you're setting yourself to being played, or to look submissive/stupid.
But if you choose to do it strategically, then it can be an effective technique of frame control, as well as giving people the benefit of the doubt and avoid escalations based on miscommunication.
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