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Short-term mating strategy with people from work?
Hello,
what's your opinion on short-term mating strategy with people from work?
My rule is a no-no for obvious but I'm curious about your opinion.
I wouldn't personally consider it a no-no.
The repeated exposure and "forbidden" feeling of the workplace can make it a great environment for flings or long-term alike.
Needless to say, these days one must tread very carefully.
But if there might be a spark, why not.
A sexual relationship can also add one strong ally at work. Sure, one must be careful that if the sexual side ends, the former partner doesn't turn into an enemy, but that's doable.
P.S.: tell us the truth, you're thinking about that blonde nurse, aren't you? :)
No, another (blonde) one who's funny and quick-witted. The short-term thing is that since I already know I'm not going to pursue long-term I know that most women will get revenge by giving you a bad professional reputation. And I don't need that.
So, I took the number of a (blonde) nurse a few weeks ago but she was staying only 6 weeks and now she left, so it's all good. But generally speaking, there are some pretty nurses, but the mindsets of the people where I live is generally very dull/not very deep nor interesting. That's why I want to move out from Switzerland.
Many people are not very interesting. They are very conformists. Deep conversations are rare.
Thank you for your opinion, it's helpful!
