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Tom Bilyeu relationsihp: can it be an example for men?
Tom talking about the red pill type of self-development
Tom: coming from somebody I've had all the the success that you guys are aiming for. I used to be terrible with women I could not get laid I solved that problem. Then I was broke I did not know how to make money I solved that problem..
It sounds like Tom is lamenting that men don't see him as a role model.
But that they should...
I do see some entitlement in the belief that he should be a role model.
And, probably, stems from not enough awareness of power dynamics.
When I look at his relationship, I see his wife having a lot more power over him, than the other way around.
And, by standard power theory, that also affects attraction.
I would have missed the entitlement belief. Grateful for that. Advanced.
Regarding power in his relationship: so basically he is doing and did everything for his woman. He may sound white knight-ish to some but weak to others. He's where he is thanks to her but at the same time her father was/is his judge and so she is.
