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Two important truths in self-development
Quote from John Freeman on May 5, 2020, 11:06 pmHello Lucio and guys,
First, this post is not a hi-jack tentative or whatever. I received quite a lot from you Lucio, even though I paid for Social Power course, that I feel like giving something back. As another customer said to you on the forum, you give a lot of value, so here (I hope some of it) it coming back your way.
Here are two important truths (according to me) in self-development that I want to share with you.
- All that self-development is self-awareness. If one would focus only on becoming more self-aware, 98% of one's problem go away. It comes from not creating more problem for yourself: since you're now aware you're creating them and can CHOOSE not to create them from now on. It comes also by doing better choices that suits you better instead of doing choices that make our lives sad, stressful, lonely, etc. We can choose to make choices that make us happy, engaged, welcomed. This idea has many ramifications.
- The people around you are a reflection of who you are. Wherever are your friends, your colleagues, where you work, etc. Look around you: it's how you CHOSE to be. Now I understand that "you are the reflection of the 5 people around you", means also that you cannot be surrounded by people who are not like you. So as you change, so they change. Funny, how the little control we have over our lives is actually an immense power. The power to change.
That's it. I hope you'll find something in there for you. That's one of my ways to say "thank you", I hope this will be perceived this way.
Grazie mille!
Hello Lucio and guys,
First, this post is not a hi-jack tentative or whatever. I received quite a lot from you Lucio, even though I paid for Social Power course, that I feel like giving something back. As another customer said to you on the forum, you give a lot of value, so here (I hope some of it) it coming back your way.
Here are two important truths (according to me) in self-development that I want to share with you.
- All that self-development is self-awareness. If one would focus only on becoming more self-aware, 98% of one's problem go away. It comes from not creating more problem for yourself: since you're now aware you're creating them and can CHOOSE not to create them from now on. It comes also by doing better choices that suits you better instead of doing choices that make our lives sad, stressful, lonely, etc. We can choose to make choices that make us happy, engaged, welcomed. This idea has many ramifications.
- The people around you are a reflection of who you are. Wherever are your friends, your colleagues, where you work, etc. Look around you: it's how you CHOSE to be. Now I understand that "you are the reflection of the 5 people around you", means also that you cannot be surrounded by people who are not like you. So as you change, so they change. Funny, how the little control we have over our lives is actually an immense power. The power to change.
That's it. I hope you'll find something in there for you. That's one of my ways to say "thank you", I hope this will be perceived this way.
Grazie mille!
