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But unlikely Pavlov, “firm but fair” tries to collaborate once again with a defector.
Let’s see how it applies in real life.
But unlike Pavlov, “firm but fair” tries to collaborate once again with a defector.
Let’s see how it applies in real life.
You may still don’t want them as very good friends since a nasty power move is always a red flag, but you may continue working together.
You may still not want them as very good friends since a nasty power move is always a red flag, but you may continue working together.
It’s the opportunity that makes the thief - Italian proverb
Proverb. opportunity makes a thief. Less common version of opportunity makes the thief: People are more likely to steal something if presented with a convenient opportunity to do so.
But when the meeting ends, ask your boss if you can talk to him 1:1 for one minute. Then demand him proper behavior privately. It’s easier for the boss to yield to you, and everyone will know what’s up.
But when the meeting ends, ask your boss if you can talk to him 1:1 for one minute. Then demand proper behavior from him privately. It’s easier for the boss to yield to you, and everyone will know what’s up.
- doormats and won’t do a thing about disrespect
- doormats and those who won’t do a thing about disrespect
In dating, it can make some women fear you. And at work, it can lead to unneccesary competition and enemies. In friendships and relationships, it can make feel you’re not a good match, and stand in the way of developing rapport, social capital, and generally making friends and allies.
In dating, it can make some women fear you. And at work, it can lead to unnecessary competition and enemies. In friendships and relationships, it can make it feel like you’re not a good match, and stand in the way of developing rapport, social capital, and generally making friends and allies.
Such as, “fair value” is a way of interacting with others that seeks win-win.
Such as, “fair value” is a way of interacting with others that seek win-win.
But it can also rub people off the wrong way.
But it can also rub people up the wrong way.
But it can also turn people off.
So as general rules:
So as general rule:
So let me make it clear it now and hopefully we can go back to collaborating like the respectful people I believe we can be.
So let me make it clear now and hopefully we can go back to collaborating like the respectful people I believe we can be.
The dumbest of the dumbest thing one can do at this point is to rub your victory in their faces -unless you want revenge, of course-.
The dumbest of dumb thing one can do at this point is to rub your victory in their faces -unless you want revenge, of course-.
What comes down to instead is in setting the frame of being right, fair, reasonable, and “true” (and you being wrong, unfair, unreasonable, and on the side of the “wrong and untrue”, of course)
What it comes down to instead is, setting the frame of being right, fair, reasonable, and “true” (and you being wrong, unfair, unreasonable, and on the side of the “wrong and untrue”, of course)
That fame may be set with high dominance or even with a raging power move.
That frame may be set with high dominance or even with a raging power move.
