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What can you do for me?
I have come across this question many times during regular talks with people and dating.
And the frame seems that I have to please the other person.
I welcome ideas from members here on how would you reply to that. Going meta might be good but it might seem an overkill and will kill rapport though I get to establish boundaries.
I can't remember having been asked this question in normal life.
Maybe a few times when in sales, in which case it was a very direct, but fair question.
But outside of that, I can't recall a single instance.
Do you have some examples when people asked that to you?
Example : during first interaction
Girl : What can you do for me?
Was very random, went metal and didn't go well
One option:
Girl: What can you do for me?
You: (corrugate your eyebrows, as if to say "this is so weird, what the f*ck is she talking about) wait... I don't get it, why should I do anything for you
Let her come up with a reason why.
Let us know if you get a chance of using it in real life, curious to hear what you get back.
