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Dating scarcity -> abundance mindset

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Point I was making was it will help anyone to get good at social exchange.

I work on that myself a lot.

Dating can be an emotionally charged topic sorry I should have been more sensitive and explained myself better

Hope you're dating goes well

One love bro

 

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KellvoMatthew WhitewoodMathieu

You came requesting knowledge. Simple as that. We are all learners in the game of life, one time or another - I'm learning new things every day! We provided, out of genuine intention to help; I explained our likely position. I offered an olive branch; you chose to escalate.

Look - I know what it's like to feel like you have to stand your ground and fight for your right to be respected. I was there too. God knows I definitely pushed back whenever I perceived anyone trying to control me. And I know firsthand that worldview isn't formed in a vacuum - it almost always involves very painful things.

It sounds like you're using it well. You're working hard. I am too - we're all ambitious people here. I'd love to hear what you're working on; if you're advancing like I think you are, I'm sure many ladies would consider themselves lucky to be in your life.

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Lucio BuffalmanoMatthew WhitewoodTransitionedZenDancer

Hi Mathieu, I would like to find out more about your thoughts about what makes you respect someone.

It can be a friend, public figure, actor, etc.

Would you be able to share?

I sincerely wish you well regardless of whether you think our advice is helpful.

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Quote from Matthew Whitewood on December 29, 2021, 3:33 am

what makes you respect someone...?

that's such a big (and great) question... what makes me respect someone? The thing that always most impresses me is genuine, authentic integrity, and that is what I'm striving for in myself... It requires continuous growth in self-awareness, and I don't think it's something that is every completely mastered ... so long as there are more layers to me, and more for me to learn about myself, there is further I can go in becoming more integrated and concomitantly having greater integrity... You can just feel it when you're talking to someone who is coming from that place though, and it's a truly beautiful thing...

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Matthew WhitewoodTransitioned

I do like a genuine conversation a lot.
Still working a lot on self-awareness.
I surprise myself sometimes in good ways and bad ways.
I find that it's a never-ending journey in myself too.

I was curious about Mathieu's perspective so he and the community can work together well.

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