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Men: A Texting Power Move When She Ends the Convo (sneaky)
I was planning to close the conversation on my very next message.
And then... Baaam!
She stole my thunder.
Here is how I handled it:

Basically, the power move here is to pretend that I had already gone to sleep (not true) so that I'd leave her messaging last. Then, on the morning after I wouldn't end up double messaging -double-messaging is a very bad indicator early on- , thus increasing the chances of the conversation humming along and proposing a coffe ASAP.
I usually don't recommend playing games.
But interactions in the beginning are so fragile that any small detail can make the difference.
So in this case, it was fair game.
I was planning to close the conversation on my very next message.
And then... Baaam!
She stole my thunder.
Here is how I handled it:

Basically, the power move here is to pretend that I had already gone to sleep (not true) so that I'd leave her messaging last. Then, on the morning after I wouldn't end up double messaging -double-messaging is a very bad indicator early on- , thus increasing the chances of the conversation humming along and proposing a coffe ASAP.
I usually don't recommend playing games.
But interactions in the beginning are so fragile that any small detail can make the difference.
So in this case, it was fair game.