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Which product should I get?

#1 · February 12, 2020, 5:28 pm

Hello Lucio,

Thank you for creating your fine website. I have been looking for a path towards being a better man outside of TRP. It had its truths but was also steeped in a lot of negative behaviors.

I have some questions to ask before embarking on a purchase to one of your products. I am convinced to pay for your great material, just will like to know the best option for me at this point in time.

May I know which do you recommend in getting, a subscription or a purchase of the Power Moves course?

Some backstory for you which might help in suggesting:

My current focus is on

securing myself in self-esteem, as I have an anxious type attachment style
being able to make friends and be a better friend to both guys and girls,
and of course being better at dating and relationships with ladies.
With regards to power, I sometimes end up bringing people down in an attempt to make myself better, which I hate because I do it reflexively. I will like to be a kinder person but maintain my stance, and also be more accepting and less judgemental.

Additional questions:

Are there any actionable exercises in your course? To help one get into the habit of improving

Is your forum free for like-minded people to discuss topics and encourage each other to grow healthily?

Thanks and regards,
B.

#2 · February 12, 2020, 5:59 pm

Hello B!

Yeah, I'm glad to hear TRP was more like a temporary stage for you.

From your question, it seems like you're on the right path, and what you want is pretty much what also defines a high-value individual.

At first blus, it seems like you're looking for foundational stuff for now, and it's possible that the course might be a bit more on the advanced end of the spectrum compared to what you're looking for right now.
There are some exercises in the course, but they're of a specific type. It's in the form of quizzes to help increase emotional and social intelligence. Or they're targeting some core traits, like posture and voice exercises (the same ones that I do and that I learned from the best in those fields).
It's not the type of exercise of "ask if you can have a discount on the coffee" or "go out and talk to 20 people saying this or that", which are very popular in social skills courses or books, but which I never personally liked much.

I realize that this answer does not give you a definitive answer. But if I had to direct towards one product, then from your message it seems like the ebook "Ultimate Power" might better cover the basics such as self-esteem, changing oneself, and installing the right habits. All the material in there is assembled from what I thought was the best available on general self-development.

P.S.: self-esteem and anxious attachment type might have some overlap, but they're not exactly the same (anxious attachment type refers to behavior in relationships).
I would guess you're more referring to personal self-esteem in general.

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