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Cringe on "high quality" and "low quality" women articles

Your articles on what makes a 'high quality' or 'low quality woman' are so cringeworthy.

They scream 'Hi I'm ******* insecure, so I've made an online empire out of trying to restore a scrap of courage to other dudes who have zero self-awareness ***************. So please women, be feminine! Don't have a high powered career! Don't challenge my tiny fragile chunk of imagined power I delusionally think I've mastered away from me!'

Any woman with half a brain can smell a weak, insecure, peacocking little b*tch a mile away.

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Moderated slurs and curses

The first thing we can confirm from your rant is that having hair on your head, being tall and having a beautiful face is a plus in term of look, something men figured out a long time ago from what attracts women and from what women say. Fortunately look is not the only thing that matter when women choose a man.

Concerning women with a good career, they have a high value socially because they are educated and powerful, which make you a better person in general.

Sexually, a career is a neutral, it can be a negative (unfortunately most of the cases) if it makes you less feminine (most men hate bossy/mannish/confrontational women) or a plus if it makes you date with intelligence (understanding that a man doesn't necessarily look at your CV when he wants to have sex/a relationship with you).

The typical overreaction of a low quality woman. Why do you even let these through? 

@Killer7 having hair is an advantage, but it's not nearly as universal as, say, height or symmetrical features.

I grew up in a place where men truly obsess about their hair.
The rebellious teenagers in my crew weren't shoplifting games, but hair products (true story).
And when I started losing hair my barber whispered into my ear in a father-figure fashion:

Don't get ill about it

Ehrr... Thanks, I wasn't even thinking about getting sick over fewer hair.
But that goes a long way to show that it's more men who care about hair than women.
Especially the fashion-conscious ones.

In time, I learned that many women either don't mind hair too much or even like the bald look.
Plenty of women I've crossed paths with said they liked the bald look (needless to sa, this is circumstantial evidence and there is a selection bias in my sample).

Of course, the bald look needs to be well-maintaned.
Almost as much as the normal hair.
Just this week I was running a few tests to replace my pics, and this one was of the criticisms/feedback:

female appreciation for bold men

Great tool to test your online dating profile pics, BTW!

Only men go bald, which partially makes the bald look a mannish-sign.
Which is also why women dread losing hair. When Demi Moore sported a bald look for the first time, she was all over the media because it was considered "so brave / daring" of her.
The reason was that by going bald Ms. Moore was giving up her femininity to look more like a man.
A few years later, it was Britney Spears' turn: her bald hair was often equated to her going crazy.

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Quote from Guest on October 12, 2019, 7:47 pm

The typical overreaction of a low quality woman. Why do you even let these through? 

I usually block messages and threads which are offensive to others.
If they're directed at me, it's OK.

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Looks like you're catching flak. Good, that means those posts were on target.

Can't open a new topic as a guest but wanted to say that the new icons look childish. This is an advanced learning website and it should look more professional.

My 2 cents, keep up the great work

Quote from Guest on October 30, 2019, 11:50 pm

Can't open a new topic as a guest but wanted to say that the new icons look childish. This is an advanced learning website and it should look more professional.

My 2 cents, keep up the great work

Thank you for the feedback!

I suppose the drink and blowing kiss are the most childish one?
I was looking for something different for dating, like a couple, or even an image of sex, but there was nothing like that. Plenty of heart shapes of course, but it seemed to "quaint".

On "lifestyle" there is "travel", "entrepreneurship", and "wealth". I didn't write "health", but it would also go there.
I didn't want to make anything money or work related as the main icon and wanted something fresher and more fun-related. A reminder that life should also be pleasaure and not just constant work and hustling.

But thanks again, I very much appreciate feedback and if I get more along your line I will possibly change it.

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