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My Journey to Power
Something I understand tonight: if you resist a manipulator's attempt at sexual seduction she will try to destroy you (socially: shaming, etc. as "jokes" of course).
Thanks to my psychologist, I now understand that due to my mother being a manipulator I was unconsciously submitting by default to manipulative women.
Now I’m aware of it so I don’t only keep my guard up I don’t submit. It will take some time to remove this behaviour of course.
But it’s a key realization in improving my social power.
Yesterday my friends did another birthday party for me. Several upcoming posts as there has been quite a few power moves. I will also share my take on why I think there are so many power moves on one’s birthday.
Oh and feminists hate high status males. But you already knew that. As aspiring eagles these are our natural enemies: turkeys, low-quality women, feminists, manipulator, takers, frienemies.
The frame enemy refers to their attitude not ours. These are the people most likely to attack us as we increase our status and power. These people want anything but that we achieve that. So the attacks.
Personal message to @Matthew: I'm glad to see you're back! :)
Thanks for the warm welcome! Good to see you as well. 🙂
Thanks for sharing your personal experience and advice regarding therapy.
I have been going through therapy and have found the process to be valuable.
These are great news Matthew! I feel honoured if my advice was helpful.
I'm so looking forward to read your posts. You have been missed here, not only by me. I hope you are well!
As you can see in the posts above I myself started a new one which is quite helpful for me as well.
These are great news Matthew! I feel honoured if my advice was helpful.
I'm so looking forward to read your posts. You have been missed here, not only by me. I hope you are well!
As you can see in the posts above I myself started a new one which is quite helpful for me as well.
I do recall some of our enjoyable discussions and miss them too :).
Looking forward to read your posts as well!
Hope you are well too!
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A warm, warm welcome back, Matthew!
Happy to see you again here in the forum :).
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Appreciate the warm welcome.
Happy to see you again too :).
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Something I'm noticing is the higher status you go, the more attacks will come.
It's both a test of if you really are high-power/high-status (do you deserve it? are these honest signals?) and jealousy (why does he get to enjoy high status and why don't I?).
Yesterday at my birthday party (yes another one, this time organized by friends) I got many attacks and they were all coming from the women.
There was one nice woman who offered me a gift along with his boyfriend. All the other were nasty IG bitches/feminists. So low-quality women who thinks they are high-quality.
So now I'm in a phase where I'm a bit bitter towards western modern women. As it's true there are many who are nasty/low-quality. And I've been way too nice with them and many mens are indeed simping/pedestalizing them. So they feel entitled to behave like that whereas in terms of self-development they are not on the same level at all as many male friends/colleagues.
I think that because as men we have to do self-development in order to attract women, by definition most of the men who do self-development will be of higher quality than most women (since most don't do self-development, relying on their looks and the fact of being a woman being enough).
So yeah I'm in this phase but I accept it. I had to remove a bit my rose-tinted glasses a bit again. It's going to pass as soon as I integrated this in my subconscious. The thing I agree with is that social media and dating apps have made women of lower quality regarding what most men expect from women. Yesterday the only cool woman was polish so I was considering looking for a scandinavian girlfriend but I'm also considering the cultural aspects. And the entitlement is also a lot in Scandinavia from my knowledge/experience. Whereas in my experience polish women are humble despite having many qualities (hard working, intellectual/analytical, etc.).
Huge generalizations here so to be taken through the filter of my experience, biases and influences. Current thoughts.
As I'm aware I'm diving in negative stuff watching red pill stuff, I watched the end of this video from Lucio (avoid the red pill part).
I did it on purpose as of course the more I watch these videos, the more I believe it (confirmation bias). And irony of the situation, it happens that Lucio actually quotes me at the end of the video.
So I'm divided between digging deeper in red pill for some time and then stop. Versus not digging deeper.
I think women like me because I project the good things on them. However I want to see the truth. So I think I need to dig deeper.
