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- Mental CYA 1 (awareness): of betrayals as an unescapable possibility
- Mental CYA 1 (awareness): of betrayals as an inescapable possibility
However, we can propose you a good approach that will optimize your CYA no matter what you choose.
However, we can propose a good approach, that will optimize your CYA no matter what you choose.
- Everything talking, no texts or written messages
- Everything spoken and agreed in person in a safe private place, no texts or written messages or phone calls
Of course, as a reminder, people’s character matters.
Of course, as a reminder, people’s characters matter.
And it didn’t stop everyone around them to seek them out and work with them in exchanges that had high personal costs but that, from a colder and more business perspective, were still win-win relationships.
And it didn’t stop everyone around them from seeking them out and working with them in exchanges that had high personal/emotional costs but that, from a colder and more business perspective, were still win-win relationships.
People will keep flocking to you, work and business opportunities will keep knocking at your door, many romantic partners will also be available, and many if not all will turn a blind eye to your dickhead behavior -and let alone to your “less than eagle behavior”-.
People will keep flocking to you, work and business opportunities will keep knocking at your door, many romantic partners will also be available, and many if not all will turn a blind eye to your dickhead behavior -and let you get away with “less than eagle" behavior.
Remember: the black sheep pays some price, but also gains the benefits of playing by his own rules. The sheep instead “gains” with a life of no troubles, but must pay the price of toeing the line.
Remember: the black sheep pays some price, but also gains the benefits of playing by his own rules. The white sheep instead “gains” with a life of no troubles, but must pay the price of toeing the line.
Instead, they have a history of conforming sheep. And now that they acted out of line with the herd, they’re screwed because when you’re a sheep, you must be judged by the herd’s rules, and pay like a sheep.
Instead, they have a history of conforming sheep. And now that they acted out of line with the herd, they’re screwed because when you’re a sheep, you must be judged by the herd’s rules, and behave like a sheep.
The futility often makes it a lot worse for the manipulator because he’d doing the exact opposite of straight: to simply admit, or at least to stop manipulating
The futility often makes it a lot worse for the manipulator because he is doing the exact opposite of being straight: simply admitting, or at least to stopping manipulation
