Mastering self-promotion at work is a critical skill for career success.
Knowing how to showcase your value and achievements can lead to better recognition, promotions, and a stronger professional reputation.
But self-promotion isn’t just about bragging—it’s about political skills, savvy communication, and displaying leadership to stay visible without coming across as self-centered.
Bragging effectively is both a science, and an art.
In this article, you’ll discover proven strategies for effective self-promotion.
1. Let them see you win, never bleed
Principle:
⚖️ No mistake happened if your boss is unaware of it
🟰 Hide your mistakes from your boss
🔎 Example:
After a major blunder the project manager called and yelled for what seemed an eternity:
PM: (angry) Think before you hit “send”, THINK! Are you able to THINK!
Me: (calm) Yes, I think I am
PM: Who else was in CC, was it Andy in there too?
Me: (calm) I think he was, yes
PM: (yelling) What the f*ck were you thinking, ANDY was there, you sent ANDY the wrong report on MY project! Do you know who are they going to blame?
Me: (calm) Well, I think me
PM: (yelling) No, because you’re a fucking junior who can’t do shit and they will blame ME!
Me: (calm) Hmmmm yeah, maybe you’re right
And on and on.
Notice there is no ‘sorry’.
Why not?
Although the project manager grew angrier without apologies, the boss next to me stayed oblivious to my mistake.
And with a flawless appearance, I ended the assignment with an ‘exceeds’.
2. Have others sing your praises
When you follow our principles, including being high-power/high-warmth, most people think well of you.
Not everyone will talk well about you, though.
This is how you fix it:
- Make smart allies who know how to play politics
- When they compliment you 1:1, tell them to share it
- Lead by example and say great things about the people close to you
This might be the simplest, most effective, and classiest way to promote.
🙋♂️That time I realized my friends hyped me up
I remember years ago at the launch party of a well-funded startup.
One of the founders introduced me to one of his friends as “Lucio, he’s really good in sales, but really good”.
I had to smile within myself: maybe he was right, but how did he even know?
I had never worked with him, and never been too close to him, either.
But my network -and very possibly my brother-in-arms- did some good promotion for me.
3. Deliver ideas with storytelling techniques
When you blurt out a good idea without any build-up, you sell your genius short.
If you have a winning idea, build up to it.
Ie.:
You: Alright, you all had valuable input, and I have come to this idea, hear me out. <— Attention grabber
What if instead of X, we could do Y. <— Excitement-building preview
Here is how we could get it done…
Research shows that the whiteboard increases engagement and retention.
And gives people a feeling you “own” the idea.
Plus, you act display self-confidence and leadership qualities.
5. Use presentations to validate speakers & gain stage time
Leil Lowndes recommends you be the first to applaud.
I agree, and even more, you can:
- Sit in front
- Look at the speaker
- Smile at their jokes
- Ask easy questions and preface them with your name/title
- 🎓 Ask in the name of your department to sound leader-like
Ie.: “You mentioned we need more X. Any idea how we in marketing can help with that?“ - Go talk to them afterward
- Compliment them
- Thank them
- Ask questions
Friendly applause also sub-communicate that you’re a loyal ally, especially important in male hierarchical cultures.
🙋♂️That time I forgot to validate
Years ago I was in a fintech incubator.
The son of a rich businessman ‘bought his button’ to join as a founder, and that night delivered a presentation.
As usual, few career-minded people listen to the speeches, while 9-to-5ers and mavericks are there to eat, drink, talk and shoot the breeze.
Knowing my future wasn’t there, I ignored the political game and was instead sitting with a girl talking about life and dating.
Suddently, the presenter came over hyped and excited and asked us: “So, I was it?“.
Both of us were lost, thinking “What the heck is he talking about?“
After a few micro-seconds of incredulity it dawned on me: this he was so clueless that not only he hadn’t realized we didn’t care, but he didn’t realize that openly looking for validation made him look terribly insecure.
So I fumbled that his speech was awesome.
“Yeah?“, he asked. “Yeah man, you’re a great speaker, everyone was listening to you raptly“. He closed both his fists in sign of victory, and left.
He was junior and inexperienced, so he made it too obvious he craved support and approval.
But make no mistake, more seasones players hide it more.
But they still appreciate support and approval.
6. Have a plan for home office
Home office makes life easier, but career advancement more challenging.
Peggy Klaus in her book “Brag” calls the political fallout of too much home office the “out of sight, out of mind syndrome”.
Mixing Klaus’ good advice with our own, this is how you can fix it:
- Schedule a recurring 1:1 with your boss to stay top of mind. Often, the relationship with your boss is the most important work relationship
- Check-in by phone with boss and colleagues
- Schedule lunches when nearby the office with the most influential people in your career
- Strategically CC your boss to display good work
⚠️ Avoid overdoing: it quickly turns annoying
7. Craft elevator’s pitches & create ‘elevator moments’
The elevator’s pitch is a quick introduction of yourself that you can deliver at a moment’s notice.
It should seem natural, but only because you rehearsed it plenty of times.
When looking for opportunities, include:
- What you’ve done
- What you’re doing
- Who you want to help with your skills
Ask AI how to make it compelling, and adjust it to your preferences.
🛠️ 🎓 Create your elevator rides
When I want to meet a woman and make it ‘natural’, I slow down, speed up, or check something right beside them.
It’s the same with creating ‘elevator rides’.
Pick up the phones to seem busy and (pretend you’re) talking to someone until you’re ready to strike.
Or slow down or speed up when the founder is entering the building.
Attention-grabbing behavior or clothes in high-transit areas also make for easy conversation starters.
For example, the first time I spoke with the founder was while brushing my teeth, and he spoke first with a big smile.
7.2. Kitchenette power moves
Don’t reply ‘All good’ when higher-ups ask ‘What’s up’.
Talk about work instead:
You: Great, thank you!
I’m very excited about XYZ project. It’s going well, we may bring in X revenue (/cost savings).
If they show interest, keep going and ask for their perspective.
If you’re on mundane work, highlight positive aspects of the job or company, or express gratitude for the opportunity.
👉🏼 Don’t queue-up: lazy men stand in queues
Avoid queuing for anything during working hours (water, fridge, toaster). It signals low-value slacking.
8. Romance your work
For example:
- Mention the challenges you overcame
Ie.: “The laptop is fixed“ ➡️ “The IT department was backed up, but I convinced them to prioritize your laptop.
Here it is“
- Breakup your achievements, research suggests it makes them more impressive
Ie.: “The project is delivered“ ➡️ “We delivered all requirements on time, and within budget“
9. Use positive self-frames
Everything you do or say sub-communicates about you.
The strategic communicator, something we train our students in Power University, always talk in a way that self-frame them as high-value, influential, and in-demand.
Here are some examples:
| Negative Self-frames | Positive Self-frames |
|---|---|
| I could have done a better job with the budget | Although slightly over budget, we delivered ahead of schedule <— Focus on the positive |
| I won’t manage to keep it within schedule | Staff turnover will delay us. We’re interviewing for replacements already the new delivery date is…… <— Share external circumstances |
| I wish I had done more research before deciding to hire him. | Unluckily it didn’t work out. We now learned how to uncover fake references and it won’t happen again <— Covertly off-load blame, then focus on learning & solutions |
🎗️ Balance and calibration
Do, without overdoing it. Share the issues beyond your control, while also taking responsibility. Mention the challenges, without overblowing them. Breakup achievements, without wasting people’s time.
10. Extra tips
- Attend company’s parties: absences communicate disloyalty
- Do go for after-hours, especially if your boss/management will be there
- Get into the company’s newsletter: make friends with PR / comms, and get a company-wide mention
- Post wins on Linkedin, and tag your company
- Like the updates of your boss / founders and share them: trust me, they notice
- Approach powerful people with something you have in common: research the attendees of the networking events, look up their background, and go talk to them mentioning some commonalities
Also see this article for higher-level self-promotion strategies.
SUMMARY
Effective self-promotion requires a mix of bold self-advocacy, tempered with subtlety and strategy.
Start incorporating these techniques, and your reputation will start taking off -together with your career-.
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