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#31 · June 8, 2023, 12:48 pm

Hi Lucio,

I watched the last videos now.

Content is top quality as always, and my feedback only deals with my feeling as to external "appearance" layers.

Here's the points I feel could be improved:

jittery, low quality audio, crackling sounds, difficulty to hear you speak, even some echo present;
the round portion with you in it, superimposed on the case study: I personally don't like it much, and feel it is confusing. Prior videos where your segments were separated from the case study felt better;
background is not optimal. Electric sockets, plaque on wall, portion of door, does not feel right.

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#32 · June 8, 2023, 12:55 pm

Thank you so much, Bel!

Super useful.

BTW, an important note that didn't make it onto the video:

There is a lot of power in the frame that Elon Musk gave the example and the "leeway" for other CEOs to do the smae.

It sub-communicates he's the leader of leaders.

BUT...

It's still not optimal for him specifically because... Well, there's the article to explain that :).

And since I originally landed here to link the new article:

Start at advanced level: Why it's best to skip the basics to learn more efficiently

It started from a forum thread here.

Thanks to Bel, Mats, Ali, and Transitioned.

The article wouldn't have been 1/3 as good without all your input.

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#33 · June 12, 2023, 7:25 pm

TPM's first short.

Case study of an overbearing "friend" who:

Interrupts
Is way too dominant
Drops heavily disempowering "jokes" (without any humor)

Khabib handles it well with:

Avoid the "too nice trap", which would be to laugh along or pretend all is well
Direct request to drop it
Body language that frames the attacker as an annoying c*nt
Low investment
A verbally high-warmth "see you later", but with the re-empowering sub-communication of "f*ck you"

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#34 · June 12, 2023, 9:58 pm

Thank you very much! Enlightening.

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#35 · June 12, 2023, 11:37 pm

Thank you for the note, John!

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#36 · June 18, 2023, 4:19 pm

Couple of new articles:

How to be an alpha male, from the bigger "alpha male article" which is the longer overview. That one is more zeroed-in on the steps, and adds plenty of wisdom and examples
Red flags of bad friends' storytelling: a case study from a previous forum thread. Also, first article using AI for generating pictures, and with a new YB short yet to be published

Also prepared several new reviews, but don't want to over-publish so they'll be in draft mode for some time.

I'm thinking about releasing articles for alumni only at first, but only a thought for now.

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#37 · June 19, 2023, 8:16 am

Hello Lucio, in the red flag article the video is unavailable

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#38 · June 19, 2023, 10:29 am

BOOM!

Thank you so much for the note, Jack!

Just checked and unluckily it seems on YouTube that whenever you schedule a video release date, it's automatically turned as "private" (VS "unlisted" which would allow you to embed it):

Thinking now if it's worth it to re-set it as "unlisted" and then reschedule it later on closer to the release date.

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#39 · June 19, 2023, 1:37 pm

In the alpha male article, there is a mistake in the title 4.2.

It says alpha mail instead of alpha male.

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#40 · June 19, 2023, 1:42 pm

BOOM!

Thank you, Jack!
Fixed it now.

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