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Typos, Grammar, Syntax, & Content Improvement - Megathread
The housewife who always says yet to his man no matter how she feels
the correct possesive pronoun for she (housewife) should be her
Also "yes", not yet
"to her man"
From a stereotype perspective, such as before we get to know the person, people put in this category... homeless and welfare recipients, as they are seen as leaching off society without giving anything.
After "people put in this category" something seems to be missing or just weird syntax.
third-world country bitch with a complex of inferiority.
- I am from a third-world country, jeje, yes some nasty bitches around, lol
“Consensual resistance to sex” refers to the woman resisting to sex while also enjoying the process and, in spite of the resistance, being willing, or at least open, to sleep with him.
- This is a very interesting, important an delicate phenomenon, that may come as an absolute surprise to overly nice guys that take all women say at face value,. and as a nightmare to men who are excessively affraid of getting accussed of rape. Yet I feel "consensual -resistance" is a too much of a contradiction and by itself can make people confuse. This are some suggestiong for alternative names for that phenomenon that sounds less convoluted:
Token resistance: is a term, commonly referred to in the seduction community, denoting a rejection of advances, almost always of the sexual kind, with intention of actually engaging in the activity that was initially rejected.
Fake resistance,
test-like resistance.
As I escalate, this is what you can do to make sure she knows it’s all good:
There is another option I saw in some movie or something, it goes like this:
Let her know the door is open and she can left at any moment, you preffer her to stay yet she is free to choose, but if she choose to stay, you let her know that, since you find her so attractive you will try making love to her or at least to get physical.
What do you think about that one? I see how it can came as kind of manipulative in some scenarios, but in others I feel it can be fair game. normally I would not feel bad at all if an attractive female friend of mine tell me that if I dont leave she would masturbate me, give me head or something.
Say that she can leave at any time, but that you would really like her to stay.
cool you mention something very similar later, the part I am adding to it is making very clear that if she choose to stay you will try to get sexual with her.
But dome individuals who seek dominance and power over others can be pathological.
#some
almost all dark triad individuals seek power, dominand and control.
#dominance
In https://thepowermoves.com/covert-power-moves/
preconceived frame behind tat expression. => that expression
Beating Loaded Question => leading question (in fact in this section of the article you use loaded question and leading question, I'm not sure which one is the correct one)
it’s often now what you want to hear. => not what you want to hear
Quote from gbe on August 30, 2020, 11:27 am
also: "I was busy (with more important things) to take care of ... your (less important) thing"
"take care of, than your (..."
if you already told them where do you remember *** from, then say it’s just a vague memory and move on right away.
do you remember them from
??
If she says *** very emotionally her words sound congruent and many people miss the preconceived frame behind tat expression.
- it
Leading questions are attempts to lead you, or trick you, into accepting one’s own frame of reference.
the interrogator's frame of reference would make the meaning a little more clear than one’s own frame...
Quote from Stef on August 30, 2020, 10:53 am
There is another option I saw in some movie or something, it goes like this:
Let her know the door is open and she can left at any moment, you preffer her to stay yet she is free to choose, but if she choose to stay, you let her know that, since you find her so attractive you will try making love to her or at least to get physical.
What do you think about that one? I see how it can came as kind of manipulative in some scenarios, but in others I feel it can be fair game. normally I would not feel bad at all if an attractive female friend of mine tell me that if I dont leave she would masturbate me, give me head or something.
Say that she can leave at any time, but that you would really like her to stay.
cool you mention something very similar later, the part I am adding to it is making very clear that if she choose to stay you will try to get sexual with her.
Stef,
When it comes to making it clear that if she stays you will get sexual, I like it... As long as you know that you are fielding a sort of "take it or leave it" negotiation gambit.
If you do it very strongly, than the gambit is "leave now, or stay and keep on deflecting form my sexual assaults".
In my opinion and experience, the risks often outweigh the gains.
Yes, it sounds cool to advise guys to do something like that because it sounds high-power.
But when it comes to her deciding between staying or leaving, it often ends up with her leaving, because you are verbally escalating to "sex or no sex" exactly at the time when she is most likely still in the "no sex camp".
If instead you had taken a step back for a while, or even a step back for the whole evening, it's possible you'd still end up togehter with her later on, or
That being said, I still often do it.
But the key to doing it well is to say exactly when you are the calmest. Sit back afar from her, spread an arm on the couch, be chill while she seems very emotional, take pauses and avoid filling in the blanks, etc.
Bascially, you say "sex or no sex" verbally, but nonverbally you are actually saying "but it's not like I care so much and it's like I'm gonna pounce of you like I haven't seen a vagina in 1 year".
That make it far more likely that she will stay. And if she stays, it's within a very positive frame.
They need authority to feed their ego, increase your social status and, of course, to make you feel bad.
decrease your/increase their
Thank you so much, Stef! Fixed.
Or “oh cool man, do you like Italian food”.
These kinds of questions invite to talk more, but you don’t want.
How to Help People Out of Awkward Social Situations: A Guide
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Thank you, Stef! Fixed.
https://thepowermoves.com/how-to-stop-people-undermining-you/
#1. Seek To Turn Them Into Friends
Remember this:
Many underminers are undermining you out of jealousy and envy, plusbecause they think you are
the sentence is incomplete.
