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This post provides an overview of social power dynamics.
We strive to keep it updated but prioritize Power University for our freshest upgrades.
But if you aren’t ready for it yet, this is a good primer for you.
Go in this order:
Basics of Social Skills & Power
Originally we advised to learn basic social skills first.
But experience changed our minds.
Today we believe that power dynamics is as important as basic social skills.
See here:
That being said, the two disciplines are tightly intertwined.
And developing emotional intelligence also helps you develop power intelligence.
Basics of Emotional Intelligence
There’s no great single product (yet) on developing emotional intelligence for life success.
But these can help you:
Basics of Social Skills
Start with this:
- Basics of social dynamics: foundations of social exchanges, the most important model to understand how to be socially effective
- Social exchange basic laws: foundational applied
Learning to analyze social relationships as exchanges may seem cynical, but the opposite is true.
A mindset of providing value and demanding value back is good for all.
It’s also a mind-opening mental switch for some, and it forms the bedrock of greater influence and persuasion, as well as many advanced strategies and techniques.
Also check the forum entries for some typical mistakes linked to the law of social exchange: missing the WIIFM and failing to put their best foot forward.
High-level Principles
These articles provide a higher-level understanding:
- Positive cynicism: start with cynicism to avoid being naive. And then move beyond it
- Enlightened collaborator: seek collaboration while being aware of the risks, the “dark side” present in every human being, and that some individuals are “darker” than others
- Mix power with warmth: Machiavelli said that, ideally, a prince should be feared and loved at the same time. He was right. That’s why you want both power and warmth. Also read “value and availability“, which is the ultimate goal of mixing power and warmth.
Social Skills Resources
Some people also need the basics on how to talk and how to hold a conversation.
Bonding, Connecting, & Leadership
The more calculative aspect of the social exchange are more for rational and business-like exchanges.
More advanced players add emotions and extrinsic motivators.
Good relationships and human bonding also transcend the more calculative aspects.
Check out for example:
Then start adding some refinement for some deeper human connections:
But the closer you get to someone, the more you want to add different layers.
For example, see “how to bond with people” and “how to be a leader” to get a feel for the higher levels of social skills
The basics of high-quality behavior
Power Dynamics
Now let’s get into power dynamics properly:
Foundations
- Social power dynamics: a geeky-friendly primer for social power dynamics
- Frame control techniques: understanding frames is understanding power dynamics. The full lesson is in Power University, but here you get 50% of the value
- Power dynamics: a definition, and why they matter
Practical
Some articles to give you an idea of empowered behavior that gives you status, respect, and attraction:
Low-status body language to avoid
Low status speaking to avoid
- They will help you understand social dynamics at a deeper level than most available resources
From here on, you can move to mastery with Power University.
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