How to seduce a man.
I am glad you are reading this article and I congratulate you.
This world needs more women who can master the art of seduction.
In this article we will analyze three different styles who have been proven to seduce men by the millions.
We will break down exactly what it is that makes them effective when it comes to seducing men from a psychological point of view.
And ten we will explain how you can do the same.
- How to Seduce Men
- Marilyn Monroe Seduction Style
- Aida Yespica Seduction Style
- Margarita Levieva Seduction Style
- Seducing Men: Summary
How to Seduce Men
First of all, there are several different styles that work.
That means that you don’t need to change your natural self but you can leverage your strengths.
Some styles, like Marilyn Monroe, works on virtually every man.
But once you execute each seduction style in this article well, you they will still work on the majority of men. Even many of those who say “they are not into that”.
Let’s start then.
Marilyn Monroe Seduction Style
The Sexual Innocence
A guide on female seduction could not not start with Marilyn Monroe.
Marilyn’s seduction power plays on the mixed signals of always on sex vibes coupled with the defenseless girly attitude.
1. Orgasmic Faces
Look at the first 10 seconds of the video below.
What does it make you, what sensations does it evoke in you?
It’s of a mix of orgasmic and dreamy expressions. As if she’d just awaken.. Or as if she’d never wake up. She’s always there to take you in her dream world.
The second most important element of Marilyn is innocence.
It’s the mix of sex and innocence that is so explosive.
Sex alone is common, and would make her no more than the typical TV soubrette.
Innocence is the element that allows her to scream sex from every pore without looking like a thirsty wh*re. Thanks to innocence Marilyn escapes labels: on the Madonna-Whore dichotomy, she takes both.
Her natural aura of innocence gives Marilyn a huge advantage over almost any other women. With the mix of innocence and sex she seduces men at two different levels:
- Carnal desires
At the same time that men want to possess her, they also want to protect her.
3. Promises of Endless Pleasures
Look at the first 20 seconds of this video.
Her voice, her softness and demure attitude are already captivating.
Then the interviewer makes a difficult question.
She pauses, without getting defensive or guarded. She admits she doesn’t know what to answer, showing her vulnerability and inhibition.
Then she cracks a joke… And flashes her orgasmic face.
Marilyn in 20 seconds.
How does it feel?
Does it feel like this woman around the house would nag you about dirty dishes? Or complain about crumbles in kitchen?
No, it feels like she’d float around, never bothering, never pestering… And never rejecting his man for sex.
This is the last major pillar of Marilyn’s appeal.
As Greene also explains in The Art of Seduction, men are smothered by the need of always being rational and in control. And that’s why irrationality and madness exert such an unconscious pull.
Madness also puts a man slightly on edge. He never knows what’s coming… And he never feels he fully has her. All powerful tools to hook him in.
Notice how she lays against him, slightly unnatural. And how she’s short of breath, as if pained by some mysterious mental issue.
How Marilyn Seduces Men: Summary
If I had to summarize Marilyin feminine seduction powers in one sentence, it would be this: she oozes sex so that every man think she’s easy and ready to be impregnated, but they also want to protect her at the same time.
And here are the steps:
- Look like sex
- Seem easy
- Add innocence
- Play the girl in need of protection
- Add a touch of madness and unpredictability: you’re not easy to tie down
Aida Yespica Seduction Style
The Sexual Tease
“Gatte morte” know how to seduce a man.
I know, that’s not English. There’s no equivalent for that Italian expression. It would be something like a cross over between “tease” / “feminine” / “coy”.
But we’ll see what that means with examples.
In the latest years I’ve never seen anyone topping Aida Yespica when it comes to the teasing seductive style.
Rumors had it she would charge thousands of Euros for her company before she even got famous. And I still remember my friend’s comment: “I would totally pay it”.
Now why would a penniless -and very handsome- teenager go in debt when he had an abundance of women -and when equally beautiful hookers were available at less than 100?-.
Because none of them knew how to use teasing to seduce a man, of course.
Try To Guess
Watch this video first, and see if you can guess who’s the seductress we’re talking about.
Don’t just look at bodies. Look at the overall aura.
Who makes you want to possess her the most?
It’s not even a contest, right?
The girl who grabs her own boobs and shows her tongue is Aida Yespica.
Here what makes Aida stand out:
1. Hedonistic Playfulness
It’s all a game for her. Life is dancing, laughing… And very possibly sex, we imagine.
Aida makes you feel like you’re drinking from the source of eternal youth.
Because She is eternal youth and hedonistic passion.
If you want to have the same vibe:
- Laugh hard
- Dance with abandon
- Be positive and upbeat
- Socialize, make friends quickly
- Be happy, have a lust for life
2. Sexual Inhibition
Aida emanates confidence in her own body and sexuality.
It feels as if she could do herself, she would. And as she grabs and touches herself, many men probably imagine her doing just that.
There’s a strong relation between how much we accept our bodies and how inhibited we can get in bed.
We know that unconsciously, and that’s why sexually inhibited seducers are so good at arousing men.
Note again that sexual liberation is only the first step, but not enough to get you into the Olympus of top seducers.
It’s the tease and provocation that Aida adds to the mix indeed that take her to the next level:
3. Sexual Provocation
The way Aida mixes sex and fun is a big provocation. She puts sex in front of you, then pulls it a way as if it was all in jest.
She pokes fun at your manhood.
It’s like telling him:
“I’d go for it… But you were too slow.. We’re just friends now… Unless you’re man enough to come and get me?”.
That’s the kind of sexual provocation the top coquettes go for.
It’s waving the red flag in front of the bull, only to sidestep at the last second and get him chasing with his blood roiling.
Here’s an example of the concept from a TEDx talk on seduction:
Margarita Levieva Seduction Style
The Essence of Feminity
An article on how to seduce a man could not avoid the most natural of seduction: pure, concentrated femininity.
It’s Margarita Levieva, pure femininity in motion. And I wasn’t surprised to read she was born in Russia and was a competitive gymnast.
1. Dancing Skills
Some art expressions can give you big points when it comes to femininity and seduction. Singer, violinist, fashion designer are some of them.
And of course, dancing.
Dancing is the public, dressed up expression of love making. Nothing screams femininity like proper dancing:
2. Feminine Body Language
The devil is in the details.
The best feminine seducers internalize feminine body language into their daily expressions, making it all natural. Even when they don’t look like they’re trying to seduce.
Here’s an example:
Did you guess it? The cues are: head tilt and a slight sway back posture.
3. Flowing Motion
Men tend to move in blockier fashion.
Some women too.
But the best seducers move flowingly instead, like colorful butterflies.
Here’s the perfect entrance: no bombast, but 100% femininity:
Notice how she moves like she’s walking on air. She’s late but still doesn’t hurry: she’s a lady and the man can wait.
And most of all notice how she gets into the chair: she doesn’t use her hands or pull the chair up. She seductively
4. Purring Voice
Notice in the above video her accent on the words “late”, “ever” and “forgive”. It’s like a cat purr. It’s not about meaning, it’s about sensuality.
Seducing Men: Summary
There are many styles and techniques that help women seduce men and make them swoon.
This article focuses mostly on what are very feminine traits:
- Teasing & provocation
These are all traits that you can easily incorporate in your life. Especially femininity, which is in rather short supply these days.
If you want to take it now to the next level, check out this article: