My dating advice for women is based on a simple idea:
Most of the current dating advice is poor quality, generic and, oftentimes, wrong.
Below I list some of the most dangerous myths and then explain why they’re wrong and what’s a better approach instead.
Contrary to most “dating tips for women” you find online I ground my approach in psychology, data, researches and lots of personal experience.
This page gives you an overview on what I have written so far.
Making Him Chase
But who chases?
This is the N.1 dating advice for women: you should make him chase.
The idea is that the more he chases, the more he will commit to you.
And there is some truth in that, you can read here how to make him chase.
However, it’s generic advice and it’s poor for high quality women because it mostly works with lower quality men and in very specific situations..
Make Him Invest in You
.. But who invests?
The second most popular advice is to make him invest as much as possible.
Things such as: pick you up, pay for dinner, do you favors etc.
The idea is that the more he invests, the more he will like you and the more he will commit.
And there is much truth in that.
However, same as for chasing, it’s mostly men who feel they’re not good enough who will try to “buy” their difference away..
Wait.. As Long As Possible
Time to sex is linked to chasing and investment.
The longer you wait, the more he is investing and chasing.
Waiting works great with some men in specific occasions and is harmful in many others.
However, giving in too early can make you look too easy.
Making early sex seem like an exception. It’s what I call the Madonna/whore build up to sex…
Men Want Independent Bitches
.. Except It’s Not True
Walking the line between career accomplishments and femininity is not an easy task.
And like Aziz says:
Respect for female strength does not translate into male attraction
Whether we like it or not, more feminine and more submissive women have more dating options.
Read here the theory, and later we’ll see what you can do about it.
Becoming A Successful Dater
Some Dating Wisdom Theory
Alright, we debunked some dating myths.
Now let’s build on it with some some good dating theory instead.
Here are a few key articles to get you started: